I spend quite a bit of money for very fine lingerie (such as La Perla).  I'm wondering how much men really care about lingerie.  Is there a difference in your eyes between La Perla and Victoria's Secret?  Speaking for myself, quality lingerie makes me feel sexier.

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Nonetheless it won't be on that long anyways..but if it makes you feel good all the more power to you..And we the hobbyist(s) just benefit..

It really turns me on and adds to the experience.  Glad you take the time to do it. Just my opinion.

I think it's important what lingerie you personally like and prefer. I suppose some eyes (male) may be able to tell the difference between Victoria Secret and Perla. Isn't there a Agent Provocateur too that is supposed to be very fine lingerie? The important thing is what you like and feel comfortable in and what makes you happy. Just my opinion

The quality certainly shows in the pic.

For me, sexy lingerie adds to the overall excitement of the date.  My late wife would always indulge me on this.  It became part of our foreplay & stayed in our relationship for over 30 years, until her illness made it impossible.
I usually let my date know what I like & ask if she might have something along that line.  If not, I will bring something for her to wear for me.  Many of my dates really liked what I brought over & said that they could wear it when they went out clubbing (usually suspender pantyhose).
Overall, my vote is a BIG YES for sexy lingerie.

I think it varies depending on the person. For me, it is very important. And I usually bring some as a gift if we plan well in advance. While VS is usually easier to order or find if traveling, AP has become a favorite of mine. Ofcourse La Perla is also exquisite.

I will add that you wear it very well Jennifer. Perhaps we should meet?

the high end for the high end, or whichever end you wear it on.  class will out, and i prefer agent provacateur but yes, la pearla is good too.

you are intriguing me, but i think that's what your post was supposed to do, ne c'est pas?

I've been in downtown Pairs and have walked by the La Perla Storefront. Gave me an instant hard-on. Also, their Website is awesome. I know that it is expensive, but the right gentleman will help cover the costs.

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I'm a minority and also an idiot

It just never did or does that much for me .
Cleavage and a short , tight mini dress - OH my !!!!  Thigh high boots and I am done !!!!
Cool how we are all made differently !!!!
As a guy , I think I can say with 100% assurance that it NEVER hurts to ask when the date draws near . It shows you DO care about my preferences and want me to have a good time . It is a subtle clue that you are a top tier , caring provider for sure !!!
I am VERY shy and don't ask for clothing requests . Like others have said , I WANT you to feel comfortable and sexy - it matters to me !!!!  Even if it means jeans and a T shirt , as long as you are comfortable that is what matters a great deal to me . I chose you , you already are HOT as far as I am concerned , so I will still want to fuck your brains out , clothing does not change that ( for me ) just enhances it for the guy .
As far as noticing the difference ...............I am an idiot , I am a guy , I wear flip flops and drink beer - I have no clue !!!!
We ( as women ) are all different ..............Never can go wrong with seductive inquires about what you should wear !!!!

For me, beautiful lingerie is a turn-on.
The lingerie has to be classy, like LaPerla. Don't like the PVC/slutty stuff.

Your future by laying out any more cash than you need to. La Perla is awesome but V.S. will easily do as good. Think of it like gift wrap-nice wrap is good but the package inside is the focus. Save your money for your future and wear a big smile!

complements the the body and features of a woman obviously is seducing but the sexiness of the woman that is most important , a really hot sexy woman in a tight fitting T-shirt and shorts is preferable to one with high end lingerie that does not enhance or compliment her body or look.  

I personally like to look at it...in photos.  But when seeing a provider, or a civvy for that matter, it just gets in the way...full on nekkid skin on skin for me when you get right down to it.

As for the "quality" of the lingerie if a lady wears it, I care not a whit...it could be Target or Costco lingerie as far as I care as long as she's comfortable and feels and looks sexy in it.

to me its everything and sets the mood immediately

I remember when we met you were beautifully dressed. I was as blown away by you in person as I am by the pictures on your site. I was easily aroused, but I wanted to unwrap my package as quickly as possible.

Even as much as I appreciate a becoming presentation your figure would look good in a t-shirt and a pair of jeans as well. I've got a big, clunky jewelry fetish too. If we meet again maybe you can use that to your advantage.

it piques the interest when you see them. Even better is to have a nice outfit with the lingerie. It's like opening a present on a holiday, nice package on the outside (and maybe getting some glimpses of what's underneath "on the sly"), removing layers to get to the prize inside! The brand matters less than how it fits on the woman and how she feels with it on. One of the best images I remember is of  a woman in a simple sheer bra and panty set with a white blouse on top with just a few of the buttons in place.

I say more power to you on wearing sexy lingerie....I think it definitely enhances that first impression for me.   However, sometimes I also ask the lady to simply greet me in plain street clothes as it sometimes provides me with a more realistic GFE.

As to the high end, well, it is the look that matters to me and I personally would not know high end vs low end if you didn't tell me.  I suspect the high end feels better on the body due to finer material used but it doesn't matter to me.  If it makes you feel better and you want to spend the money on the high end, then by all means go for it!

The appearance of my date and what I will enjoy will depend a lot on what type of meeting we have set up...A one hour meeting may not allow enough time to fully appreciate the finer lingerie as undergarments are being pulled and thrown into corners and on chandeliers. Whereas a longer meeting may allow a sensual strip-show, cat walk, tease, and deliberate caressing and undressing of said garments...
If that is the case, a fine ensemble would be more appreciated than something less elegant.  

In return:
How important are the clothes and appearance of your date when compared to his actual appearance, ie. face, hair, body, etc?  For example, are you going to be more turned on by a "shmo" dressed in a two thousand dollar suit, or  by a genuinely attractive man dressed in jeans and t-shirt?  

Ditto this.  Sundress and flip flops/heels.  That's it and ideal.  Personally.

I don't know the difference between La Perla, or Victoria's Secret, or something you got from Wal Mart for 3 bucks. (you look good in your picture by the way, but I have no clue what you're wearing). Whatever makes you feel good and sexy is fine with me, and I won't complain. Butif you ask me what I like, I'm a man of simple taste. I love skin. I like to see a lady naked and barefeet, and the faster she gets that way the better. I don't much care for lingerie, stockings, garters, or high heels. A simple sun dress and flip flops with no underwear is ideal to me!

Whether your single minded solicitor notices the distinguishing differences between couture and common is debate-able. But YOU will, and your performance will likely reflect it as favorably as the lingerie reflects on you.

That's my absolute favorite outfit on a lady, preferably with no underwear.
Other faves: jeans, shorts, denim mini skirts, with a t shirt, tank top or simple blouse.

Backlit, late afternoon sun...

In addition to that one image I alluded to above, the other mental image that stays with me is that exact scenario. She was wearing an ankle length flower print sun dress that when backlit (although it wasn't even late afternoon!) let you see her legs as it flowed with the breeze. Lo and behold, when we got up the stairs (ahem, being a gentleman I let her go first) to her place, she didn't have a stitch on underneath.

I definitely do care that a woman wears fine lingerie, and especially if the type makes the woman feel sexier.  If she feels sexy, it makes her much more attractive to me.

Great question.  I love Lingerie and love a woman who like to wear Lingerie and sexy attire.  I know the difference between Target and Victoria Secret Lingerie but beyond that I don't see that much difference as it usually does not stay on long.  However I personally feel much better about myself when I am wearing expensive high quality clothes, socks, and shorts.  if you feel better about yourself in the highest of quality they who cares if your clients appreciate it.  It should be about you and what makes you feel HOT and SEXY!