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Definitely not leaning the direction I expected but I like the alternate perspective. It truly is different strokes for different folks (and I think that's the first time I've used that quote in proper context :) ).
Keep the comments coming folks, very interesting!
BravoTango.

Hi All,
Looking for your thoughts on DATY with providers, both from the providers' and hobbyists' perspectives.  I'll give my thoughts and hopefully that will give you an idea of what sort of feedback I'm looking for...

DATY isn't an inherent turn-on for me.  I've never thought, "God, that pussy's so hot I have to lick it."  But maybe I'm weird :D  Something I do like though is to give my partner pleasure too and with non-providers I've certainly spent many an hour downtown with tongue, lips, and fingers ruining them for all other guys (OK, maybe not the last part :p ).  That build up with girls who aren't on the clock and (I think) generally aren't faking Os (no offense girls) take time; I doubt many providers are really hitting crescendo with that five minute tongue-lashing in our hour session.  So here's what I'm getting at; the girls likely aren't really hitting the O, if I'm not alone in my opinion of DATY the guys aren't really getting much out of it, is all the DATY out there just one big shared delusion we've been subjecting ourselves to?

Aliases and PMs are fine if you want to protect egos or maintain a selfless appearance :D

Thanks,
BravoTango

PS girls: alternately, if it's not about the big-O, is that just your way of making it possible for us to slide it home without having to reach for the lube?  I don't expect any provider to go insta-wet when a client walks in the door (I'm not Jake Gyllenhaal's doppleganger) and maybe there's some taboo about having to use lubricant.

I know some chicks really arent into it and i cant really blame em, especially high volume gals but at least if they pretend well that can be good enough. at least i can say i tried!!!

but for those who can relax and enjoy i find it to be a real treat!!!! dont wanna get crude here but few things are as fun as really helping a gal have a little treat...

I love your mindset. Notrouble. When we all share our respective treats we create pure magic.:)

This is a big thing for me and one of the reasons I hobby.  I will stear away from women whose reviews show they don't like it as it is something I enjoy.  Sometimes wish it was a search option.  Understand and appreciate those who do not like it or want it a part of a session.

If you are a lady and love getting this for hours on end in a session, I would really love to hear from you.

It is a search option - lick pussy - yes or no.  I just typed "yes" and got 4,353 hits.  Go take the taste test and report back.  LOL.

DATY is my ATF xoxo LOL

If your good you can eat me all day!

The consensus  was that most guys do it, to give her pleasure and in doing so, please themselves.

   Personally, I can't get past the image of your dick being in there a hour earlier, so I generally do not. I have asked girls and, most agree with me.  However, I have some special girls I do it to and we have a great time.

Posted By: alyssarossi
Who the heck did that for you?!?  

Lol!
Obviously not me! =))  It appears I'm the slow train to orgasm-ville :D

Speaking only for myself.....I find that the time to blast off is more a matter of how a woman is wired. Some ladies are prone to "O" very quickly because they can...while using the same technique can take other ladies 15-20 minutes to reach climax.  Now....If a guy (or girls for that matter) has lousy technique then they can lick from now until next Tuesday with zero results.

Just like some woman can get off on penetration while others can't.  It is one of the great joys of sex....the variety!

Now Alyssa if you want me to go for the Under 5 minute mark we can give that a try....But I got the sense that you enjoyed the long slow pace....let me know next time!  ;-)

If I read in a provider's reviews that she either a) doesn't allow, or b) doesn't enjoy DATY, it's almost certainly a deal breaker for me. Here's why:

I tend to schedule appointments for 2 hrs or more, therefore I enjoy foreplay. As part of the attraction, or illusion, or fantasy, I like to feel that she really enjoys my company, and if I'm a returning friend, that she's happy to see my face at the door.

I also take immense satisfaction from pleasing the woman I'm with. I've been highly complimented on my skills in that area, among others, and I really, truly enjoy doing it. If the chemistry's right, I feel like I could be down there in The Promised Land indefinitely.

When I schedule a date, I like to bat leadoff. If the object of my desire isn't available for that first morning date, I'll patiently wait til another day presents the opportunity. I've heard pros and cons re first date of the day vs last of the evening. To each his own.

There's more reasons to list, but that's the tip of the proverbial iceberg. Everybody's got their own unique needs, desires, and preferences. These are mine.

Harpman60388 reads

You do it for your own pleasure and satisfaction. Most of the girls have a program and routine they go through as they provide their client one hour of fantasy which includes daty and other choreographed moves to run the clock down.

I enjoy munching period however, with providers ,I generally reserve it to K-girls and trusted regular high end escorts , both of who react as if I Rudolp V but I know better and play along.

Definitely not leaning the direction I expected but I like the alternate perspective. It truly is different strokes for different folks (and I think that's the first time I've used that quote in proper context :) ).
Keep the comments coming folks, very interesting!
BravoTango.

Its great!  If I have a client who is good at it, patient (as you men must realize that sort of "O" takes a time and an energy investment), and clearly loves to do it, I have a great time and I give myself over to it because I know that makes him happy.  I do have one client who I know will do that for me every single time we meet and so I know I know what I'm in for when he shows up at my door.  ;-)

Sometimes, and I'm being honest here, it excites me in a such a way that I don't want to "O," I just HAVE to "reciprocate" because that's what I like to do.

Other times, I feel like I need to teach a class or give private lessons on how to do it because, clearly, someone has watched porn and learned their skills from that.  I feel like I should publicly announce to everyone that what you see in porn is not usually pleasurable to a girl.  Those times are quite rare, actually but they do happen.

However, never ever will I fake an "O."  Its just not my thing to do it.  I would rather be honest during our time together.  You could argue that its part of the package deal to at least just fake it and boost a gent's ego, but my retort is that with me, the time and experience is completely genuine and I fiercely safeguard that aspect of the experience.

Now I have a question in response to a couple of things mentioned above...

Do you guys all assume all the providers see multiple clients per day and that is what you mean when you talk about going to bat first in the morning?  Or is possibly that you are referring to the K-girls, who definitely do see multiple clients in one day?   Just curious.

=)) with one girl I actually tried to be bad on purpose; I immediately went in with too much pressure and tongue waging back and forth like a paint shaker hoping she'd change her mind and flip back around ;)  there was a bit of a language barrier there though

Regarding number of clients per day...  I'm new to this but I've jumped in with both feet and I'm learning quickly.  Early on I did think that you girls stayed pretty busy.  That's since been dispelled for me as I've met more providers and realize how many are going to school or have other employment as well; there's just not enough time in the day to do that and see a constant stream of guys.  It seems to me now that the independents aren't necessarily seeing someone every day and even on busy days are seeing two, maybe three guys.  There was one girl I was with that openly pined to live in her incall location and I was a bit puzzled as on an hourly basis her rate was a fair bit higher than mine but I pay the same amount for my place and it's not the least bit painful for me.  Again, learning curve.

Then to the contrary, I also think I had the a wrong opinion about how many guys a k-girl sees each day.  Looking at CityVibe ads and seeing "available 10AM to 10PM" I was envisioning a stream of a dozen guys a day passing through those appartments.  Since then, based upon scheduling choices I've been given, it seems like their more around the five per day range plus or minus a couple.  I could be wrong - in fact could be way off on both fronts - but these are just my observations and in any case that answers your question as to one guy's perspective. :)

It's usually the K-girls I was referring to but I'm sure we all know some
indy caucasians who see their share or more of clients daily.
I don't even want to be third out of three.
I want to be the wake up call.
Just my opinion.

So Alyssa....In answer to your how many at bats per day question....Now considering that I know you and I know that you limit your appointments per day (which I appreciate)...and unless I am seeing one of my other firends....I assume that most providers see more than one client per day. I personally know one provider that will see 8 guys if she gets enough calls.

I would say that the one per day provider is less common.

Just my $0.02 worth. :-)

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This comment covers my dating life as well as the hobby.  Nothing gets me more aroused than spending some quality time between a woman's thighs and burying my face in her most private place.  

Frankly, I don't even know if I'm any good at it, but I've been doing it since the second time I ever had sex, so I've sure put in the practice time.  I enjoy it for the pleasure it gives me as well as the pleasure I hope it gives her. I've always viewed oral as a normal part of having sex, and except for a quickie, can't imagine missing out on such an enjoyable part of the experience.

I love exploring a woman's most sensitive spaces and there is NOTHING better than sensing the subtle changes to her body (increased wetness, the movement of her hips, the small contractions her pussy makes) as she builds to and finally gives way to her orgasm.....and if she is multi-orgasmic then I am a really happy man.

The five minute time frame all depends on the woman and how she is wired....I have been rewarded by a thigh crushing "Mama Mia" from my favorite Italian Princess in much less than that....there is a certain Super model on this board that can get off several times in under five minutes.....there are also those ladies who require a little more time and attention which is fine as long as they are enjoying themselves.

One note for the ladies....giving hints or out right step by step directions (by certain Princesses :-)  ;) should be welcome by us fellows....we are down there for your pleasure after all so getting you to where you need to go is what it is all about! If a guy is not interested in hearing what makes you happy then it may be time to hit the "Next" button. :-)

Happy Dining Everyone!!

shall we say "smells like a litter box"

I know its a bit off subject, but I was wondering what, if any, way to let a provider know that her vag is in need of some medical attention without completely insulting her.

Im curious as to if Im doing it right or too roughly. Usually i daty until the girl says she is too sensitive. Is that usually from an O or from being too aggressive with the tongue. Or is this just a subjective girl by girl thing?

Here's my two cents.  I love to DATY.  I have from the first time I found myself down there and didn't know what I was doing.  In my experience most of the women I have had the pleasure to know this intimately tell me this is the only way they orgasm with a man and I believe them.  Sticking your dick in there in one thing but putting your tongue and whole self in there is heaven.

maybe we need a pussy eaters discussion group.. ??


Hi. .

I am Astra.   I love to eat pussy...

I truly enjoy licking her pussy, but i don't put pressure on her to "O". I do it to make her feel good, like she does to me when she gives me head. I love liking her breasts, softly, her whole body. Lovemaking, right? even if for an hour.
A woman's body is too beautiful to just look at it. I enjoy the worship.

Posted By: BravoTango
Hi All,
Looking for your thoughts on DATY with providers, both from the providers' and hobbyists' perspectives.  I'll give my thoughts and hopefully that will give you an idea of what sort of feedback I'm looking for...

DATY isn't an inherent turn-on for me.  I've never thought, "God, that pussy's so hot I have to lick it."  But maybe I'm weird :D  Something I do like though is to give my partner pleasure too and with non-providers I've certainly spent many an hour downtown with tongue, lips, and fingers ruining them for all other guys (OK, maybe not the last part :p ).  That build up with girls who aren't on the clock and (I think) generally aren't faking Os (no offense girls) take time; I doubt many providers are really hitting crescendo with that five minute tongue-lashing in our hour session.  So here's what I'm getting at; the girls likely aren't really hitting the O, if I'm not alone in my opinion of DATY the guys aren't really getting much out of it, is all the DATY out there just one big shared delusion we've been subjecting ourselves to?

Aliases and PMs are fine if you want to protect egos or maintain a selfless appearance :D

Thanks,
BravoTango

PS girls: alternately, if it's not about the big-O, is that just your way of making it possible for us to slide it home without having to reach for the lube?  I don't expect any provider to go insta-wet when a client walks in the door (I'm not Jake Gyllenhaal's doppleganger) and maybe there's some taboo about having to use lubricant.

Posted By: BravoTango
Hi All,
Looking for your thoughts on DATY with providers, both from the providers' and hobbyists' perspectives.  I'll give my thoughts and hopefully that will give you an idea of what sort of feedback I'm looking for...

DATY isn't an inherent turn-on for me.  I've never thought, "God, that pussy's so hot I have to lick it."  But maybe I'm weird :D  Something I do like though is to give my partner pleasure too and with non-providers I've certainly spent many an hour downtown with tongue, lips, and fingers ruining them for all other guys (OK, maybe not the last part :p ).  That build up with girls who aren't on the clock and (I think) generally aren't faking Os (no offense girls) take time; I doubt many providers are really hitting crescendo with that five minute tongue-lashing in our hour session.  So here's what I'm getting at; the girls likely aren't really hitting the O, if I'm not alone in my opinion of DATY the guys aren't really getting much out of it, is all the DATY out there just one big shared delusion we've been subjecting ourselves to?

Aliases and PMs are fine if you want to protect egos or maintain a selfless appearance :D

Thanks,
BravoTango

PS girls: alternately, if it's not about the big-O, is that just your way of making it possible for us to slide it home without having to reach for the lube?  I don't expect any provider to go insta-wet when a client walks in the door (I'm not Jake Gyllenhaal's doppleganger) and maybe there's some taboo about having to use lubricant.

Someone's got to mention it. DATY is a primary method of transferring or contracting oral Herpes Zoster, HSV-1

The mouth sores or facial sores that result from outbreak are painful and disruptive. And medicine must be taken daily while engaging in intimate contact to prevent outbreaks. And there's no guarantee of not spreading even when there are no sores or outbreak.

A damp pussy smelling like a litter box as mentioned on this thread, not a great prospect if you're trying to avoid HSV-1 or flip side, spreading it.

But I guess with estimated 70 million Americans with it already, it's already a hush-hush pandemic. Lots of commericals out there for products to "prevent outbreaks and cold sores". And medicine to only supress, not cure. Big business for sure.

So be careful out there!

Harpman60372 reads

There are health and  risks in this hobby  which we should all be aware of.

I appreciate your post, and totally understand the risks as you've outlined them, so please take the following comment with a grain of salt and a sense of humor---

THANKS FOR PISSING ALL OVER THE CAMPFIRE!!!!!!!

Are you fun guy to have drinks with? (I know, don't end a sentence with a preposition)

Posted By: ize2dsky

Are you fun guy to have drinks with? (I know, don't end a sentence with a preposition)
But any guy who asks "are you a fun guy with whom to have drinks?" likely isn't.  Damn, no one will want to have beers with me now :(

But seriously, everyone, thank you for your feedback.  It was much more than I expected to hear and very interesting.  It seems that Tex and I are alone in our opinions on the subject (that really surprised me honestly) but it was great to hear the enthusiasm expressed on both sides of the hobbyist/provider fence.

Ladies: you now know my opinion on the matter so when we inevitably meet please be sensitive to my preference even though it appears you'll be a bit disappointed :D  and I think I'll be a little more up front about my preferences with future partners too (especially given I don't have one of those magic "five minute tongues" ;-) you lucky bastards ).

Thanks all!

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