With provider ad info and reviewers write ups, everything is subjective. Everything is interpreted by the person writing the info and by the person reading it.
You have to estimate if the Ad(s) and/or the review(s) are accurate and comprehensive. If your confidence level is low that a certain provider will give you what you want, then it's best to move on. If your confidence level is high, then go for it, knowing that until you are the person writing the next review, you can never be 100% certain. And even then, you have no guarantee that you will get the same (or better) service if you return.
As to terms like "GFE," "PSE," "LFK," "DFK," and others, these are also subject to interpretation. One provider's claim of "GFE" may mean what most of us believe: DFK and BBBJ. But that's not a legal standard (Oh, the irony!). Another provider may decide that her version of GFE is giving you a hug at the door, a massage on her bed, and whispering "I love you" in your ear, before slapping on an industrial 1950's-era Jimmy Hat that feels like it was made from WW2 tire rubber surplus materials.
So read all of her Ads, read all of her reviews. If possible, contact some of the reviewers through TER and ask questions. Or at least vette any review that looks out of place:
- How may other reviews has this guy written?
- Does he show a consistent bias towards providers?
- Are his scores consistent with the review text?
- Does it make sense?
Finally, after you have booked, arrived, and presented the donation, have a chat with your provider about what you like and don't like and about what she likes and doesn't like. Then have fun and make a decision on what review to write (if any) and if you might (or might not) return.
Life is good
The Cat
