I decide to try someone new with a few good reviews. She looks good and she's got a good deal going that I couldn't resist. So, I called and VM is full. No call back.
The next day I text her, introducing myself and three and a half hours later, I get a reply. She’s a student, so maybe she’s busy with school. She asks if want to meet her today. I reply yes, I would like to see her. Almost an hour goes by with no reply, so I follow up telling her that if it’s still possible, I’d like to see her tonight. It’s almost 6pm.
Now,, it’s after 8pm, and I figure that we aren’t going to meet, so I head out to do some grocery shopping. As I’m walking to my car, after all this time she replies asking, "when do you want to meet tonight?" Honestly, I thought I would already be at her place having fun. I don’t know what this girl’s deal is or if I still want to meet her. She’s not exactly close by and I still want to get some shopping done. After some consideration I tell her 10pm and I head to the ATM. Finally, a timely reply from her. She asks about my ethnicity. I reply and she gets back to me saying that she’s still not at home and maybe we can meet tomorrow. Argh!! Thank you for letting me think that we were meeting soon. I really appreciate it.
I tell her that I’m busy the next day so I’ll try her another time. In the same text, I ask her what are good days and hours for her because I'm willing to work within them. Her reply is simply, "k". Now, that's great info that I can use later.
It's been a while since I've had this kind of experience (indies), so it was especially annoying. Lately, I've been with dealing with local agencies who have it together, so I haven't had to deal with this kind of lack of organization.
/rant
The next day I text her, introducing myself and three and a half hours later, I get a reply. She’s a student, so maybe she’s busy with school. She asks if want to meet her today. I reply yes, I would like to see her. Almost an hour goes by with no reply, so I follow up telling her that if it’s still possible, I’d like to see her tonight. It’s almost 6pm.
Now,, it’s after 8pm, and I figure that we aren’t going to meet, so I head out to do some grocery shopping. As I’m walking to my car, after all this time she replies asking, "when do you want to meet tonight?" Honestly, I thought I would already be at her place having fun. I don’t know what this girl’s deal is or if I still want to meet her. She’s not exactly close by and I still want to get some shopping done. After some consideration I tell her 10pm and I head to the ATM. Finally, a timely reply from her. She asks about my ethnicity. I reply and she gets back to me saying that she’s still not at home and maybe we can meet tomorrow. Argh!! Thank you for letting me think that we were meeting soon. I really appreciate it.
I tell her that I’m busy the next day so I’ll try her another time. In the same text, I ask her what are good days and hours for her because I'm willing to work within them. Her reply is simply, "k". Now, that's great info that I can use later.
It's been a while since I've had this kind of experience (indies), so it was especially annoying. Lately, I've been with dealing with local agencies who have it together, so I haven't had to deal with this kind of lack of organization.
/rant
She sounds like a teenager. Up your minimum age requirement a wee bit and you'll start finding more responsible ladies to play with.
She advertises that she is late 20s, but a reviewer indicated that she's early 30s. A woman returning to college.
I'll give her another shot and we'll see what happens.
i had one lady (highly reviewed) not confirm our date all week long, including the morning of, when i sent multiple emails & texts and phone calls (leaving vm).
nothing from her until a half hour before the date. too bad i live an hour away from her!
as it was, i went any, and that should have been my first clue as to how the appt was going to go. needless to say, it sucked, and not in a good way.
so, generally, whats the latest you'll wait for confirmation from a lady before you give up the ghost and move on?
my new rule is, if i don't have confirmation by the morning of the day of the date (i never do same day appts) i will shine her on and move on.
So your going to let her continue to put others thru the same thing.
From the reviews I read, what I encountered was never mentioned.
I posted to simply to vent, not to trash the provider since I planned on trying again.
Yesterday, I met her and had a good time. We began by texting and replies came in a timely manner. Though, I will say I started to get frustrated with some of her replies and then her suggestion that we meet today. In the end, like I said, she accommodated me, schedule wise, and I saw her last night. Good time.
I'll write a review of her eventually.
If anyone wants to know more, I can receive PMs.
there are so many more fish in the sea!
I've had a couple similar experiences. Brings up a question I have to the women out there...one time it had been planned a day in advance and when I texted to confirm the day of the appointment I got no reply. I tried to reach her throughout the day without getting anything back. Scheduled time passes so I figure it's a no-go for whatever reason. It doesn't bother me so much and I make arrangements with someone else and then a little while later she texts me and tells me she can meet in a couple hours. I tell her that I already made an appointment with someone else and she tells me to break it. She says guys do it all the time and I'd have a better time with her. Ladies...is this true and how do you feel about it? I feel I should not break a confirmed appointment just for the purpose of seeing another.
WAs trying to get a date 3 some for my birthday present in december
I gave UP!!!!!!! I was getting piss OF .......ha ha!!
Is part of men be an hunter I have no patience!!
I Iet Niceguy75 DeaI with the hassle
Grazie nice guy75
We Finally set up a date with a great provider in time
Not all indies are bad ...
In other hand some guys are just crazy they contact u.... I AM sure is not your case
Just giving an example..
Ex
Got this yesterday..
Carla can come over in 1 hour I am nice guy u no need screen me LOL!!
Sure I belive .everyone is nice guy lol
That kid probably no get any response for me !!
happy hunting
CC
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Yes, I am known for being patient in many circumstances.
I always enjoy reading your posts because English is not your first language. It's almost as if I can hear your accent. ![]()
Ha ha
My" accents..." are my charm !!! Believe me
Belissimo
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