Last week I had a 12pm, 1 hr appt with a 80 something year old gentleman.  In the bedroom I heard his alarm watch go off and asked what that noise was.  He said nothing.  I then looked at the clock, it was 12:57pm.  He lied.  

...of convo in the beginning, he should have said so.  He's a cheapskate who wanted to stretch out the time so he could reduce the hourly rate.

You are so right and yes, I would have agreed and left to go put money in the meter if it wasn't my apartment.  

hope I'm still hobbying when I/m 80. Prolly with blue pill.

You should have just reminded him that he got there early and so you started at 11:30.  You probably could have convinced him you were right.

...in your apartment.  I wouldn't leave anyone alone in my place unless I had known them for quite some time, let alone a stranger.

you went above and beyond imo.  i don't know if you replied to his email or not (probably best if you didn't; just cut off all communication with him), but if  you did i hope you reminded him that any donations paid were for your time and not for specific activities.

...and that was completely out of line for him to even expect

is Rockynutz in San Diego.  I think he's about 85 now.  His reviews are very entertaining.  Been reading them for five or six years.

First: Kudos on your being willing to see a gent (and I use the term loosely) that old.

When they go to the dentist for a root canal and are told it will be about an hour, do they complain like they do here if the dentist gets is done in 45 minutes.  They paid for the hour, they should get an hour of drilling -right?.  

I did allow him to take a shower, at 10 minutes after the hour.  He left at 20 minutes after the hour.

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He's a bit "persnickety". There is a fair degree of give and take in this realm but at the end of the day .... an hour is an hour and beyond that is at your discretion.

He thought he would get even by writing my review with not-so-nice comments.

and notarized and recorded, there will always be some jerk who will attempt to push the limits, and take advantage  of a situational agreement.
On the other hand, and in your defense, one can claim or assume  "Accepted Industry Standards." i.e.  When the door opens, the meter starts ticking.
Cheers! AM

tbh i set my phone/clock to time my sessions, and i always push start a second before i knock on the door, because that's when the session begins...

This gentlemen was trying to steal more time with you without paying for it. You went beyond the call of being a classy lady. Don't let one person ruin everything.

client's age and private email communication on a fuck board to get even. Nice

Olivia, I think you handled it well. Not everyone is a joy to be with.
If you are going to respond to his email, since he is 80, I would just say I'm sorry you feel disappointed and you will probably be better off finding someone else.
BTW I hope when I get to 80 I can still participate in the hobby :

he time starts as soon as the door opens!  And if you are late for an appointment then your appointment started when you booked the particular time.  Providers do have lives and jobs.  
What people try to get away with!  Go put money in the meter...WTF!!!!!
I'm pretty sure he didn't even leave a tip!
I always keep a smaller envelope in my back pocket with a thank you note, especially if the appointment goes over!
Is this guy's pattern with all providers? ( I didn't use the word gentleman on pupose)
What confuses me is the scoring...Appearence: He needs to have his eyes checked!  Performance.....He forgot it was a service, Hmmmmmm   maybe senility is an issue here and he forgot he wasn't in his place when he said to go put money in the meter!
Jeeeeeeezzzzzzzzz.....some people!
Does this guy bitch when his CPA or Lawyer charge for more than an hours time? ( strike that one I think we all do!)
I think it would be great for providers to be able to review Hobbyists, just so other providers could see the rating......kinda how Uber can review the passengers

Why I never give my TER handle to a provider or booker.

If he ain't dead already, he's counting the seconds until he is.  All his friends are dead and he's having a hard time with this interwebs thingamajig.  You're lucky you didn't kill him trying to get him off because he probably hasn't popped but once or twice this century.  He's lonely and you should feel honored he picked you to spend some of his scant remaining time with.   Not to mention his entire monthly supply of Viagra.  Medicare is a harsh mistress when it comes to boner pills.  

I had one of the old assholes a few months back too.  He called me and was SO glad I was back in the biz..... no one had EVER been as good as me since I left...... he'd been SO disappointed with everyone else....... he couldn't wait to get back to see me.... blah, blah, blah, blah..... Then he comes in, and of course, has ED.  i work like a maniac on the thing the whole damned hour. He tells me how great it feels the whole damned hour.  At the end of a full hour, with my mouth practically in spasms from trying to get him to finish, he says....... "You didn't even make me come, so I should get a discount."  ?????????? WTF?  Honey, that thing ain't coming if Jesus himself returns and starts the miracles going again! Then, as he leaves, I sweetly say, "Hope to see you again soon hon."  His response?  Not at your prices!  

...and he knew it was NEVER going to happen.

Those words he used are simply to make you feel bad.
That's bad