Hi All. Mikki here, new to TER, been an erotic masseuse for almost a year and I love it. I am moved to contribute something here regarding the grey area of what a provider will and won't do.
I know a lot of you are interested in whether or not a provider will provide a certain service and so you ask. I love that about men. Direct. No nonsense. The providers I know have a sort of grey area that cannot be expressed through a review. I know, it can be frustrating.
Well, of course, if you're a smelly, drooling, creepy guy with a nervous tic and an inappropriate giggle, the answer to many requests is going to be "no."
Here's how I work: I tend to promise the bare minimum in my ad so that expectations are not dashed and then at the session, I over-deliver if the client is gentlemanly and we have a connection. Until I know you, you can't really just put money down for certain services. If you REALLY want the sex and the connection is not as important to you, I'd say flat-out buy an escort's time who promises that. When I am related to my clients and trust them, I sometimes go as far as a girlfriend would. A good girlfriend. I've done that on the second or third session. Very rarely the first.
I don't mean to be coy or vague. I am simply loathe to violate my own code of what feels right for money. Not a morality thing, just a way to keep myself well. We women cannot give you the fruit if we don't water our own trees.
I am just starting here, but you can read my one review to see what I DID actually do with a fabulous client who introduced me to TER when I was traveling in Atlanta last week. Just because I did a thing with him does not guarantee I will with everyone.
This work can be so creative. Here's the "schpiel" I send out that endeavors to create the world of what pretty much anyone can expect from a session with me at the minimum:
What to expect: Each massage is different. Each is a friendly, playful, stress-relieving, healing, human connection ... a sensual, delicious, erotic feast fit for the king you are! I truly love what I do and I love men. Actually, that's what distinguishes my work from the "rub and tuggers" out there... I do my work with integrity. The quality of attention I bring to our session is extraordinary.
Come into my enchanted, sweet space, a wonderland ... candles ... music ... mirrors ... We talk as much or as little as you like. I speak pretty decent French and Spanish; I can listen as well. Or sometimes, we just speak in grunts and moans as you delight in the bliss.
The massage: Heated face rest on professional massage table, no draping ... warm, lemon-scented washcloth wash, lavender-mint oils, a fabulous, light & DEEP tissue therapeutic & erotic massage, some Thai-style stretches. I have a cool, huge vibrator massage tool to use on your back and legs and elsewhere, if you like. I scratch your scalp with my scalp scratcher, if you like. I’m wearing very little, if anything, your choice. A body dance on top of you. Respectful mutual touch. Manual release.
Shower available.
I am mature ... I provide body/mind/spirit fulfillment. I don't take more than one or two clients a day. Every session is special to me. I am committed that you leave fulfilled & satisfied, bringing your inner peace to the outer world.
I hope that clarifies. Thanks for your attention, Mikki
-- Modified on 8/23/2011 7:34:32 PM
Get some reviews & then the guys will know what your menu is because it will be listed on your profile.
FYI-No Guys, like a gray area!
Thanks Madame for the advice and thank you guys!
I know men don't like a grey area. How I work is I feel it out, though. What it says in my review I would NEVER do with some clients I've seen, to be fair. If a client comes expecting to get what the guy who reviewed me got, he'll be disappointed.
Besides, I offer so much more than "will you blow me?" I just had sex with a first time client because I felt like it and didn't charge him. I hope he doesn't say I do that in a review!
You want to make it clear that whatever the guy "got" in your first review is not on your regualr menu and regular clients should not expect it. Now you tell us you boned another dude for free cuz you felt like it. Why are you telling us this?
Look, back in the heyday of FBSM I boned lots of chicks who only had FBSM on their menu, I know others of us did too. We just did'nt say it in reviews because we knew the drill.
Now, if you want to be known for your menu, you should see about having admin remove your first review because it's inaccurate and WILL create tons of misunderstanding for you and your clients. I thought it would be needless to say you don't wanna be telling everyone you boned some dude for free while everyone else that comes along just gets a rub and tug and leaves feeling like a chump.
Or maybe I should book an hour....LOL!
-- Modified on 8/24/2011 10:38:18 AM
I really hear you. What can I say? I was horny and it was his lucky day. Mine, too.
Yeah, you're right, even though the review adache posted is totally accurate, I cannot promise say, DATY like I did with him to a guy who is pushy, turns me off or has a canker sore. You know the drill.
It would also be inaccurate to represent myself as someone who just does a rub and tug, as that only occurs in my sessions I'd say 10% of the time. Sometimes that's all they really want, A woman's touch, an awesome massage and a happy ending. Not sure what to do because I AM a giver!
Maybe you SHOULD book an hour! Tee hee. Do you like older chicks?
No canker sores here.
It's not so much "older chicks" as it is I like chicks who know how to let themselves go. And are'nt afraid to ask for what they like too...get me?
I totally get you. You like what you like! You'd probably have better fortune with someone who promises they "let go", as you say right on the first session with you.
I'm all about service, and yet I never violate my own code of what feels right with a given individual, so I don't guarantee what I can't necessarily deliver on. But when I do "let go"? ... Oh baby. The quality of attention I have been trained to provide is exquisite. That's what they tell me, anyway!
You sound like you probably have a whole bunch of dates who see you as a regular thing. That's priceless, in my view, developing something with a client.
OK, going to go break some hearts! Bye. Mikki
actually, i'm not always in the mood for wild sex, that';s why I went to the FBSM girls in the first place...the fact they ended up humping my brains out isn't my fault, and I sure did'nt make em do it. LOL
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You poor thing! Jeez, those girl and their libidos. Nauhty, naughty, naughty.
hi mikki, i really like what you are saying because the unknown is more exciting, many times i have seen providers where we had great chemistry and they have gone the extra mile, but ask please dont put it in a review if you are gone to write one.
i respect there wishes and feel special when i leave
knowing i got a little extra. you sound exciting and hope to make an appt with you.