Contact is Nice : )

I think that having some contact before, even on the phone, is nice. It does make for a more comfortable encounter, but it isn't a deal breaker either.

I think its a great idea to exchange emails to get a vibe from the person.  A sense of humor is great and also being playful about what you like and dislike.  Things like this are very important before you meet.  I have had women ask me what I like women to wear when I meet them, what my favorite position is and many other playfull questions.  It breaks the ice

I dont mind exchanging several emails with ladies before a session. I think it is a great way to get to know each other and helps builds the anticipation for the first meeting.  It is nicer going into a session having made a connection with someone than to go in cold and having to break the ice.  

I am noticing a lot more of the independent ladies are using assistants  for setting up appointments nowadays.  I understand why some ladies use them because they have a busy life but that takes away from the intimacy of the meeting.  When you write a nice introductory email to someone only to find out her assistant was reading it and then coldly asks for your screening info,   or when you mentioned a few things or had a few requests and her assistant failed to pass those along to her and she is there clueless to what you are saying, its just a frustrating and not what this is suppose to be about.  

Communication is the first part of intimacy.  

I like to communicate with a provider, prior to our meeting.  I too, get a "feel" about our compatibility.  Sometimes I just "Know" ahead of time, that our experience will be enjoyable...
As for being selective:  Well, it's a feather, in my cap, to be approved by a top provider...
Carry On  Bella

I enjoy a little pre-meet banter via emails.  Gives me a sense of what to expect from you as well and makes the session feel a little more personal.

Sometimes you cant  tell or understand how a person is really feeling or what they really meant to say via email.It has happened to me alot the last LATELY!!Emails can be confusing sometimes.A phone call is much better

As you said Carla it is good to get an idea about the other person's personality....Is she quiet and reserved or is a fun and enthusiastic (like a certain Italian I know).  I like to swap emails or texts with a lady in the weeks or days leading up to our meeting....that way when we do meet a lot of that initial akwardness is eliminated.

Ciao!!

Where is the fine line between being flirtatious and saying those things which should not be said before meeting?
Ie: "my tongue awaits your sweet taste" vs"I want to eat your pussy" Is the first acceptable or do both phrases say too much?

If the provider is willing to exchange e-mails, I'm more than willing.  At the same time, I don't want to intrude and email too much.  I feel there is a line there that I don't want to cross.

I quite enjoy a few emails before. It makes me feel like she wants to get to know me a little and this is more than a business transaction.

after 16 or 17 messages back in forth, flirting here, swearing endearments there, that the gal just ups and flakes the fuck out.  I can do without that kind of crapola.

It just makes it for better intimacy once you meet a woman.  That's just my experience.

I really like the opportunuity

to exchange a few emails with a lady before we meet. I try not to pester but do keep in contact prior to a rendezvous...especially if it is one that had been scheduled well in advance [ like ours....next April...downtown LA...remember?...lol].  It assure both parties the appt. is confirmed and allows for some flirty banter that I always enjoy.

I do understand not every babe is all that expressive via email. So it isn't always a true indicator as what awaits. But it something that adds to the overall experience. After all,  the top tier ladies all realize the quality of a session is not simply a matter of the boom boom.  It is the wholistic experience between two individuals which begins with the initial inquiry.

See ya this Spring !

Developing a rapport can make the session that much better

I've had some gals who insist on a short phone call before the meeting also.

As others have posted, knowing the right amount is a talent.  Too much of a good thing, any good thing, can backfire.

Carla Di Capri.. Who couldnt adore you ? You are beautiful!!

xoxo Lorena

exchanging e-mails and communicating with a lovely
beauty such as yourself. If a potential client doesn't want to
communicate for a little while you probably wouldn't
like him anyway. Just be careful. Perceptions through
e-mails can be misleading as one of my ATF girls found
out the hard way.

a while ago

Yes, I totally agree.  I prefer to exchange a few emails with my date.  For the most part though, most of my experiences are is that the Provider keeps it short.