So something happened tonight that seriously changed my mind about some things.  

First of all, I am not someone that is set out to write reviews although I do really appreciate those who do take the time to do so.  

I had not seen any girls in a long time and suddenly had a hankering to see a K-Girl. I'm not here to review the girls looks or performance. I want to talk about what happened after the session. Ill preface a little. I look at the hobby as something that is fun but needs to stays secret. Which is part of the thrill for me. I follow a mindset that you should never bring anything the a you can't loose to a session and your hobby phone needs to be off or set to silent all the time. Most of the time the hobby phone is out of sight and out of mind as it should be in my book.

So what happened? This was 100% my fault. While leaving the " donation " one bill got caught in my pocket (probably should used a envelope, whatever). The booker caught this after I had left of course. As you can imagine I got home and go to stash the hobby phone and notice the booker had called and texted my 4 times. The booker is pissed I wasn't  answering their calls or texts. i politely texted the booker back apologized and explained that I was driving and my phone was on silent in addition you can't text and drive in CA. I told the booker I could mail it or paypal them the balance. Well the booker still didn't think I was telling the truth and threatens to delete me from their white list. I have been a client of this booker for a long time and have never forgotten or shorted the girl/booker before.  

This kind of opened my eyes to what pressures these girls are under and if this how a treat long term client I can't believe the girls are treated much better.  

All of this is seriously over $10

 
sorry written english is not my strong suit.

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Let me ask you this question? If I bought something from you and I accidently left without giving you
full amount. You would be probably doing the same thing by calling and texting why did you stiff me.

And, by not answering or returning calls you would get the assumption of what they would be feeling  
also. Despite you called back and told them it was mistake and said that you would repay them.

You better pay up fast cause you will be "black-listed" and they will not answer your calls and when it
comes to reference time. Your probably screwed!

I would give them a $20.00 bill asap! the extra $10.00 for your mistake. I know bookers who have
"black-listed" people for same thing.

My own opinion. PAY ASAP or schedule another appt ASAP and give a nice tip to booker!

...the girls well because they are hounding you for full payment.  In reality, they ARE treating the girls well by zealously protecting them and seeing that they are not ripped off.  Your logic is faulty.

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He should absolutely pay them back with a little extra. An apology is good, but a gift to the mamasan and/or the girl will go long way.

My logic is not faulty. you need to come back in to reality a bit to understand. This is not anywhere close to buying something in a store either. If it where and you have been shopping at a small mom and pop shop they may see your a good customer and wouldnt want to loose that over a few bucks of the thousands you had spent with them. but that is not even what happened. I made a mistake, apologized and tried to arrange to make the booker whole (without driving back 30 miles in LA traffic on a Friday night.) and booker continued to see me as some dirt bag.  

Really, like a pimp protecting their investment... Ok ok, ill go with your zealously protecting them. i can only go with your so far. come on here, you really think that they are not pressured at all.  

i didnt leap to anything. i slowly walked there with clear sense of mind

The bookers have heard all the different stories you can imagine and probably some you would't even imagine. You are only looking at it from your own perspective. You may know it was an honest mistake but they deal with all kinds.  Yes, you may live 30 mi away but do you think they're thinking about that? And why would they want to have to remember that you owe them money at a future visit. It would be such a hassle to keep track of this. You may think you're a good client but maybe you are some one they just tolerate (someone not great but someone whose a regular) and this makes you becomes a less desirable client. Just make up for it and move on. Good luck.  

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All those things crossed my mind as you can imagine and i sure they have stories books are made of. but I actually did tell the booker i lived 30 miles away. I guess for me personally its a crossroad. if i have a client dropped $10 off a large bill, i rather keep the client in most cases. in the case of a client that has never shorted me i wouldn't drop them. One client can easy lead to more. i am sure there one in the wings ready to take my place. I am at peace with that life is just too short.

In the end i apologized to booker and thanked them for being a good booker and told them i understood why they are upset. i made a effort within reasonable means. i had been nothing but nice to the bookers and their girls. i think it is time for me to close the door on the K-Girl part of my life and move on

You made a mistake.  You apologized.  The booker is either going to accept it or not.  If you have lots of reviews and good references, it won't matter much, I think (MiuffT...what say you, oh guru of all things Kgirlicious?).

And I agree that it would be insane for the booker to think you were going to drive 30 miles to return ten bucks on a Fri night in LA!  

I once paid a gal in Chicago in hundreds and accidentally dropped an extra one bill in with the others.  She called and said WOW, you made a mistake... I said, keep it, for being such a great gal and for being so honest....  If the booker was not a little bit off the wall, he'd've said something along those lines, especially if you are a regular client who had dropped thousands with him.  

But he too is entitled to see it his way.

Long and short of it is, don't sweat it.

TCHS

Now I screwed up big time once with a favorite provider. I forgot to leave the envelope. Man I felt bad putting her in the spot to call me. She's a great gal though and I did go back immediately. Now I want to drop the envelope like a hot potato as that is the last thing I want to do. I have seen her since, so she forgave me. You know I think its time to call her.

I turned around, went to the provider.  Apologized profusely.  Gave her a small tip.  Everything fine after that.  Be humble and apologetic.  They provide a beautiful service.  Just IMHO.  

O2 out

or you'll be missing out on some serious kgirl pleasure.