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another question for the ladies about m & g
BigPeterJohnson 38 Reviews 929 reads
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similar to lanomad's question below, i found that when the meet & greet was packed full of people, it was kind of difficult to get to meet all the ladies that caught my eye.

one problem i had was that i didn't feel good about interrupting a conversation, esp. between a guy and a gal.  i figure i didn't want to step on anyone's toes if there was some heat going on, and besides it was a business networking meeting, so i really didn't feel i should get inbetween anything that may be happening between two folks.

also i didnt' feel good about interjecting myself into a conversation between two ladies if they were complete strangers to me.

so the question is, ladies, what do you think?  if you were talking with a guy and making a connection, would you dislike it if i interrupted and just introduced myself and told you that i'd love to speak with you at your convenience, and then step out?  how about if you were talking with a girl?

should i stop being so shy and just make a nuicance of my self?

luckily i met several new ladies that i intend on seeing soon, but i'm greedy and wanted to meet you all!

bond!  we need another m&g soon!  there's that hot brunette in the high heel pumps i never got to meet!

SashaKova857 reads

I wouldn't mind at all if someone briefly interrupted a conversation! As you said, that is the point of these meet & greets. Several gentlemen interjected between a conversation I was having to introduce themselves, and I'm glad they did -- I sought them out soon after to continue. As for approaching two girls, of course we want to meet you!! Next time, don't hesitate. :)

And yes, I agree...that was my first time attending a meet & greet, and I had SO much fun. So many sexy people in one room!

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RRO2610754 reads

I know they're tacky, and they don't compliment ANYBODY'S outfit. But some sort of innocuous 'name tag' for attendees might be helpful.

 I have little compunction fulfilling my wish to speak with a lady; but if I haven't seen her "profile" or website I feel at a distinct and possibly embarrassing disadvantage.

Being able to identify other hobbyists whom you've enjoyed their discussion board contributions or reviews is also problematic.

 The very rules of M&G etiquette we follow can have a hobbyist eagerly chatting up one or more beautiful(but unknown) women all evening, only to later find their rates are to dear, or "services" possibly insufficient for your tastes.

 Except for the aforementioned; it was "All Good!" :)

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bond007635 reads

I've done the nametag thing at a party.  Half the people had them on, half didn't.  Its just a gigantic pain in the ass.  

In my opinion, it really isn't that hard to introduce yourself to someone.  I tried as best I could to put out the websites of all the ladies that had requested an invite.    So, if nothing else, to give you an idea of who she is and her rate structure.  

Right now, I have no plans to include name tags at any of my parties.    The pens get lost, the nametags end up being all over the place.

Bond

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RRO2610574 reads

The bigger the parties get; the more complicated and problematic everything else gets.

 Again; I wasn't whining; I was just throwing an idea out.

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ßëå±põë±638 reads

Especially after we do a few rounds of Patrón shots!

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QueenBia613 reads

Sorry, but it was way to big & I noticed several fellas with the same problem.

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BigPeterJohnson646 reads

i personally got a prescription for viagra and that helps.

....oh, not that problem, sorry!

OR

yeah many ladies have said i'm way too big, too, but it's never been a problem for me!

good night folks, and be sure to tip your waitresses!  try the veal!

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Blofinger667 reads

Mixers are always a bit awkward.  The best thing is walk up, smile at everyone, listen for a few seconds, try to find a way to chime in.  If no opening, quickly say (to the lady) I don't mean to interrupt too much, but I just wanted to meet you, my name is [Bob], and I'd like to ... nah, just be quiet and the lady will say my name is Sexy Mary and I'd like to ..., nope, she will say nice to meet you.  Then just figure out if you want to stand there and try to join in or walk off.  Either way, you now know her name.  Then dash off in a corner, quickly whack one off or write or enter her name in your handy iphone with the "Must do List" app, and your done!

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