Ok so quick question. I've gotten a lot of flack for not posting reviews. How do you guys handle bad experiences? I don't like bad mouthing someone but I've had the worst experience recently. Do you guys generally post a bad review? I'm talking so bad I kind of just want to make the thought of it disappear.

Warn your fellow hobbyists to stay away.  Or not, as you see fit. But since you asked, my two centavos.  CR

That's why these review boards are here. I have been fortunate to have not had a bad experience so far, but if I ever do I will not hesitate to make others aware.

Any chance of righting the situation with the guilty provider so that you don't have to post a bad review? Or is it unfixable?

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if you're going to write it up. Otherwise, simply wash it down with the strongest liquor and fuhgeddaboudit

If it's really good or really bad I tend to review, I've done a few middle of the roads but that's usually only if she has few reviews and mine might help someone decide

Unfixable. I kind of just want to ignore it and pretend it didnt happen. If I leave a review there will always be a record to remind me. I'm thinking I might post the review and then delete my account or something

lol

I was in Vegas and decided to play. I have seen her add, and she looks amazing. When I met her at the bar, she was way different. She was about 40 pounds heavier, but it was fine to me. What bothers me the most was that when I was cleaning my self at the bathroom, she was stealing a lot of tequila from my mini bar. I just realized it after she left my room. I wrote the review and got a call back from her, and she was asking me to at least remove the part of the review that she took away drinks from the mini bar. I took that part away, but I reduced her over all score. Just something to share. Good luck and be safe to you and to the honest ladies out there.

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I don't write bad reviews very often but that is largely because I am careful who I see.  But I will write them.  The only time I have gotten any flack was when I wrote one here and in another place on a provider.   I gave her a 6 which I thought was reasonable.  But I also said she would be a no repeat.  

The issue with her is she kept coming up with excuses on why she didn't want to do certain activities even though they were in her P411 profile as things she likes.  So if a provider does that, that is basically the same as asking for a poor review.  On the other place I reviewed her, the provider can comment back basically reviewing me.  So she made a snooty little remark.  I didn't care because I have good references all over the place including that other site.  

But I did decide to contact her to discuss it.  If she had given me a good reason it was an bad night for her and simply apologized, I was considering rebooking with her to give her a chance to improve the rating.  But she was more argumentative and defensive so I did not even bother.  She said my reviews were really hurting her business because the only good reviews she had was on a site that became unavailable about a year or so ago.  So now only my reviews were coming up.  

She claimed she was very PMS the night we met and that was why she was that way.  But you know what, maybe she should not have been taking appointments then.  Anyhow, recently after seeing that she was capable of getting better reviews since that time, I recently contacted her and told her next time she was in my area I would rebook with her if she wanted and rereview her.  She accepted the offer so we are just waiting until she is back in my area.

Yeah, I feel bad usually when I post a review that is not very good.  But that is the whole point of these sites.  I don't do it be mean, I do it so she will improve her business and other people will have better experiences.  If a provider wants to get pissed about the truth then maybe she should find a different way to make money.  

I think overall I'm considered a very easy guy to deal with and I sometimes get discounted rates on repeat visits likely for that reason.....in fact, I have even been told that's a reason.  I'm not pushy or demanding.  If I feel a provider is not into something I just leave it alone.  But if I provider presents herself a certain way and is then not that way, that is misrepresentation.  I probably won't make an issue of it at that time, but it will be reflected in a review

If we can't warn each other about the ROBs, druggies, liars, cheats, NSNS and BSC women out there what good is this site?
It was not set up to be a market arm for providers.  
You can always insulate yourself by writing a review under an alias.  
So for God sake, man up and grow a pair.
Wouldn't it have been nice if you'd been warned in advance?
So think about the next guy and do the right thing. Out this little thief

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She keeps on calling and texting and I don't wa t to be bother with it, so I just have  I remove that part but decreased the score.

If the experience was disappointing, write as much. But unless you felt mislead and ripped off be respectful. Does she have positive reviews? Give her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe she was just having a bad day. Maybe you contributed to the bad experience. Maybe not. Without details it difficult for us to judge.

And as others have written your review could prevent others from a similar experience.


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As a provider if I see a lot of negative reviews that a hobbyist has written or even a hobbyist who makes a hobby of writing  a lot of reviews I am cautious.  I feel like unless the provider stole from you, made you feel unsafe or was a completely different person than advertised you come across as vindictive and petty when you write a bad review.  I agree with the hurricane 100%.

Thank you ma'am. Even positive reviews can be insensitive. I read a review awhile back, an '8', yet the reviewer felt compelled to mention he "wasn't attracted to her face". Why write that? God forbid TER add a feature where providers publicly review hobbiyists. Who wants to read "he seemed like a nice guy but I had a difficult time laughing at his bad hairpiece", "at least he came quick, and lucky for me he couldn't go a second round and left", "if he calls again I'll ignore him, I have enough regulars".  

As you stated unless robbed, crazy, or the provided grossly misrepresented herself reviewers should focus on the performance and not petty personal details.

it should have been mentioned quite predominantly, IMHO.  Theft is theft (unless it's involving politicians), and it is a matter of character.  What's to stop her from increasing her haul in the future, from some unsuspecting guy that has researched and found no trace of this nonsense.

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