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Did the right thing, IMHO....
RTowers 35 Reviews 95 reads
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Sometimes, you have to to with your gut, and here, your gut told you just fine what to do.  Maybe the hobbyist just thought he was being funny, but the truth is you were protecting your reviews (even by having ter remove a high review) and that is within your rights.  I am going to guess that 90% of the guys will agree with your decision.  RT

So I get a review (8-8) . I do not recognize the username and the review sounds fabricated and I do not remember anything from such an encounter. I search my emails to see who was the person who gave me that TER handle and find out if I ever met him or not! Search results were 0 ! So I PM the reviewer tell him “ thank you for the nice review. However I do not remember your user name. Is it possible for you to tell me your email address through which you sent me an email?”

He replies back: “Perhaps everything happens in our dreams ... or perhaps we have never met, after all this site provides fictitious desires and not reality “

So I email TER and ask them to remove the review and I copy our conversation at the bottom of my email for them to see his response and know that I am not lying. They remove it. Then he writes back and tells me that he did saw me and “Not his loss” .....

I told him if he still gives me his email through which he booked with me and if I really saw him I will ask TER to put it back up,...

But my issue is that: Did I do the right thing? Why is it so hard for him to remind me of who he is if he actually met me? Yes the review was very nice and flattering but I do not want any false review. I do not want to pave the way for future fakers to use me for getting VIPs.  

What if he really did see me? Was I rude and disrespectful for reporting his review as fake? After all he did not show me any proof and said that it’s fictitious!

Sorry for talking too much, I really needed to vent, cause I always try to be nice and always remember the whole encounter after reading the review. Sometimes I even read them 2 or 3 times cause it brings back nice memories! But had much trouble with remembering this one!


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Lily

You gave him an opportunity to speak up. In fact you gave him 2 chances. His reply was cryptic and mis-leading to say the least. I believe there are guys out there that do manufacture fake reviews just to keep or get VIP status. I noticed a guy last week that claims he was in Phoenix on business and saw a provider that is in Pasadena, and I know for a fact she does not travel. If we can't be honest with each other here, how much trust can a provider or a client have. We depend on each other for discretion and safety.

to be unwilling to giving you the information you needed. I can't see why he'd be unwilling to give you the email address he had supposedly used in the first place, and I don't see where you did anything wrong.

You most definitely did the right thing.  While I don't write many review, I have always sent a copy to the provider before I have posted it.  And I never write bad reviews.  Maybe she was having a bad day or something.

But to have a made up review posted, good or bad, is just wrong.  

Just my 2 cents.

Doc Holiday207 reads

Did you ever consider the John may have seen you from another board and did not want to reveal his ID from that board thus associating both identities? I used to have an identity on local boards in other states that was completely separate from my TER ID or the other nation boards. Only a few trusted girls know/knew more than one ID. Why because some boards are run by locals who will remove negative yet truthful reviews for some providers in exchange for free service or other such things.

I see his response as not cryptic but safeguarding his ass. After all, this entire site is about fictitious encounters. And he was maybe posting because in his “dream” he did have a great time and thought it worthy of a review reflecting that. I would have also responded the same way by telling you it is not my loss. Why, because my membership is paid for and we know that a decent review is worth money to providers, so yeah not my loss either if I were him. His and my ultimate goal might be to safeguard our multiple hobby identities.

I do not advertise on any other board and I am not a member of them. I only book my appointments via my email address which is on my TER profile. I have never seen any guy who have not sent me an email. My problem was not his TER handle, it was the fact that he did not give me the email address he used to contact me. To be honest in 99% of the cases I don't know my clients' TER handles. I only know those who have written reviews on me and only after they posted their review and not before that! Funny thing is that when the review is real I immediately can associate their handle with their email address even if they never gave it to me. To be honest I really don't care about 'who is who on different boards", handles are just made up names to me and what matters the most is the connection I make with my clients, this hobby is a personal thing and for me clients are above and beyond just a simple user name.

You have quite few reviews and all of them seem to great. Everyone gets once in a while a less than stellar review. Sometimes there just isn't chemistry regardless of how the previous reviewers have felt. It also depends on the reviewer I for once am very conservative about giving 9's and 10's not because the providers aren't hot or don't perform well it's just because they aren't my 9's and 10's.
When reading the reviews I give very little credibility for reviews where the reviewer only gives out 9's and 10's. I usually look more at the average rating as well as the actual descriptions to see if the provider sounds like something I might like.
I would also get offended if someone would call one of my reviews fake and would'n definitely want to give out my email or phone number. I would have however told you were we met so that you would know that I have actually met you.

I did not want it to be removed because it was bad, who does not want a 8-8 review? I just do not want fake reviews on my profile.

Could it have been his perception of the session?  After all gentlemen pay for a hour of fantasy.  So many times when I have had a wonderful session with a provider as I am walking to my car I recall the session in my thoughts and say "WHAT THE HELL JUST HAPPEN?"  Sometimes I want to take notes during a session. Anyway thats me.

I was talking with one provider and she had the same issue.  She said "I could never CUM 4 times in one session". She contacted the gent and remembered who it was an his answer was "That was my Fantasy".

A lot of reviews are written by the Gents who want to pound their chest and say "LOOK WHAT I DID!"
My only question to him is, Why didn't you give your email address?  That makes me believe the reviewer is in question.  Yes and 8-8's are good scores.  A few providers who've I given 8's to usually send a scathing email afterwards. C'mon  most us guys are 7-7's, and that's on a good day!  Bravo to you Lilly for wanting only factual reviews! Of course all reviews are for entertainment purposes only ;)

b.

Sometimes, you have to to with your gut, and here, your gut told you just fine what to do.  Maybe the hobbyist just thought he was being funny, but the truth is you were protecting your reviews (even by having ter remove a high review) and that is within your rights.  I am going to guess that 90% of the guys will agree with your decision.  RT

IMHO some people like to be anonymous  ,i sometimes wait a long time to write a review simply because i  figure the girl will forget who i was especially if it's  not  a great review.

How many times do I have to say that the review was great! I just wanted to remember who he was. It's very important to me because I like to know what made him the happiest for next time he visits. I even thanked him for his review, all I asked was for him to give  me a sign that he actually met me! And I gave him 3 or 4 chances before I report it to TER but he declined.

the review being fake! A lot of guys write fake reviews so the can get VIP. Exposing the BS is what makes it so important! You rock girl!

But it sure seems like you spent a lot of time and energy on something that is really of no consequence.  We've never met [ something I would hope to correct btw] but I've watched the LA board long enough as well as checked out your reviews and even observed the miraculous evolution of your upper body adornments to recognize you are a well loved...well respected lady who needs not worry too much about the actions of a singular fruit cake.  Unfortunately a lot of jerks submit fake reviews for free membership.  It sucks but fergedabodit......oh yeah....one more thing....love the new look !!

Thank you dear. Yes I do have longer black hair now. Hope to see you soon

That sealed the deal....as I've always said the most seductive aspect of a woman is her mind.  Really look forward to meeting you.

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