Heya There Lookers

Your website clearly states 350 incall and 400 outcall. It is assumed yhe higher rate for outcall is to cover travel expenses. Where does the extea 50 come from? That's an upsell.  

The  advertised  outcall rate should include everything . Unless that there is a disclaimer stating beyond certain radius there are extra fees. These things should be clear and transparent from the start . Once hidden charges start appearing it's better to cancel than feel taken advantage off . Perception is a powerful thing.  

There's an additional charge for an outfall an you'll be fine.

If it says $400 for outcall on your profile then he probably was irked that you asked for more.

What would you have said if the hobbyist asked for travel expenses and wanted to cut $50 off your fee and to pay you $300?  

That in itself should be sufficient, but since she asked for advice she now has it. I think that she will understand.

If you're traveling father than normal for an outcall, driving an extra 50 miles, for example, adding the $50 is reasonable as long as its stated in your ad, and not a surprise.

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You could have just explained the situation without saying "William from SF"
As if his name being Bob from New York would have changed anything?!

I'm sure William from SF might be reading this but how many Williams are in SF and hobby? Probably ALOT. Maybe William will give her another try sometime. A lot of the time providers aren't aware of rules weather or not their stated somewhere until they break them. It appears to me like she has been playing with her rates seeing where she wants too be. Which is fine in my book. But, I highly recommend a provider also update her TER profile when doing so. It can make for an uncomfortable situation for both the provider and hobbyist.

I always let someone know before an appointment is scheduled that within a certain mile radius I charge extra but my outcall rates are already higher being that I add that on before hand

I was in this situation one time.  I wanted incall and this lady at the last minute could not provide her apartment, so I offered to get a room.  Because I was getting the room closer to me, she now needed a car service and wanted a 2 hour date to cover her costs.   I did not book just because of the increase but the plain confusion just killed the mood for me, so I can relate to this guy.  

I think the bigger issue is the posting of his name and city. That should remain private since he has caused you no harm.

Agree with your title in header!

also not good for business.  How many guys will pass on seeing someone they think is not discrete and careful with information.

I doubt I will see a commission for it. LOL