What separates "good sex' from "amazing/memorable sex" for you? Is it something someone does...or how they make you feel?
For me:
Good sex is physical. Memorable sex is the combination of physical plus anticipation, connection & the passion that comes from being truly present in the moment. And lots of eye contact!
It can absolutely be something someone does, but more often it's the way they make me feel in those moments that lingers in my mind.
If a lady (or preferably 2 ladies 😉) is in the moment and committed to our time together, chances are I will consider it a great session.
I've had the experience of passing time with a lady or ladies who did all the right physical stuff and left virtually nothing unexplored, but who did it with the mechanical efficiency and disinterestedness of the person bagging your groceries at the supermarket.
The best sessions were ones where the ladies looked me in the eyes, kissed with passion, avoided the clichéd fake moaning and overacting, and just stayed grounded with quiet intensity. She doesn't have to offer every possible service or be a bombshell. She does have to be intimate, not just physical. That may be a lot to ask when the lady met me 5 minutes ago, but it's what makes a session great for me.
I love your feedback & completely agree... True presence & connection is unmatched by physical attributes and/or skill. Extra bonus points points when there are all three! xo
It all starts with feeling that I am being seen. From the moment I walk in, waiting and focused eyes. Seeing and being pleased to see I am returning that look, the look of I want to fuck you so hard that you’ll know how much I care about you. The entire time we are watching and communicating to insure we are pleasing each other. We are there in the moment the entire time. You don’t stop me and I don’t stop you because we know that part of our enjoyment is pleasing each other. Not one moment is rushed, nor are there unnecessarily awkward pauses. You see an opening, you take it. I see one, I take it. We both know how perfect our time together is when it’s all over and not once did we notice the time. Because the only thing that matters is each other.
Yesssss! The focused eyes are key. xo
Good sex never feels transactional.
Absolutely. It should never feel this way. xo
And you sense it at the start. The connection, the pace of your breath, your adrenaline, and desire for it to last!
True, it all starts the moment our eyes lock..... xo
I've had sex where the physical part was good or great, but I was let unfulfilled. The best sex I've had is always when we've been able to establish a really good connection, where we can just let our energies run free and interact in ways I never would have imagined possible. 
I like when my partner enjoys the intimacy as much as I do. So I like to partake in satisfying her pussy with my tongue as well as my cock & other body parts.
Yes, I found using my tongue can inhance the experience. Some providers are into daty & some not so much. The tongue can do what the cock cannot, and reverse is true.
I love eye contact! Being in the present moment & cherishing every single minute. Passion & compassion is always there with me. Kinky gets me, GFE & PSE is so much fun! 💦
I love this game!
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Thank you Kylie!
I’m pretty straight lace. What kind of kinkiness are you into? Thx!
is when I'm handing her the donation and feel tingly all over, knowing that I'm going to get laid in a few minutes and unlike with a civvie girl, I won't have to call her in the morning.
Was a few days ago! After incredible sex I just dropped a huge load in her mouth and my unit was so sensitive that I jumped and quivered at the slightest touch of her tongue, lips or hand! I was lying there spent and motionless thinking, “Wow it’s great to be alive! I didn’t deserve that! Thank you!” That’s session was worth every bit the price of admission!
