...In fact, he gets requests to visit so often that he may even have dual Greek/American citizenship.

Seriously, I would never ask if it wasn't in her profile.  No matter what euphemism is used, you still are discussing sex for money and both hobbyists and providers shouldn't do this with someone they've never met.

Even if it is on a woman's profile, it shouldn't be offered sight unseen.  You don't know if the parts will fit comfortably and whether or not he will be too rough.  You probably should wait until at least the second visit.

From what I've seen, there is almost always an extra fee since there is preparation involved if it's going to be done right.  There was this one time when I stuck in my thumb and pulled out a plum...(only it wasn't my thumb that I stuck in, and it definitely wasn't a plum that I pulled out).

Even if it's "on the menu" I think its important to have a comfort level that you usually only get after having already seen someone before.  

Plus, you shouldn't be discussing this or any other specific request with a stranger over the phone or by email, so I really don't know how you go about setting it up on a first meeting without taking unnecessary chances.

I'm probably the exception, but as a general rule, I keep the first meeting pretty generic until we get to know each other a little bit.  Then we can take it up a notch from there.

If a woman is comfortable offering this most euphoric of egress's I see no reason too attach more than $25.00 surcharge for the time and trouble of a pre-session, pre-packaged enema to make things more appetizing, edible and accident free.

 A provider who charges $50 or more for the pleasure of Greek is saying to ME;
"I don't REALLY like anal. It is just a convenient and accepted Up-Sell.".

It is refreshing to see in the hobby where communication seems to be more open about those sexual things that some topics are still difficult to bring up! I always find it helpful if something is mentioned first in a profile or review. I recently enjoyed some naughty play because of something said in a forum post.

Do you ever get the feeling that lady you are with is much naughtier that she seems? I suppose it is the hunt and the revealing of the naughtier side that is the most fun. But that usually requires more than one visit. It gives you something to look forward to and anticipate.

I also believe that I would never ask a lady to do something I would not do. So a trip to Greece should be thanked by Tantric worship of the sacred spot!

If it's on the menu, it's on the menu.  If it's not, it's not.  
Think of this as a fine dining experiences.  
I don't go into Mozza and ask for a souffle.
But if I go Nobu and everyone else can have the spicy tuna and I can't, I'm not coming back and I'm not recommending it to my friends.
Oh, you have to come in once and have the regular meal before you an order other things on the menu?  I don't think so.

I look at it two ways. 1. If a provider offers Greek on the menu, you are dining at Mastro's and not Ruth Chris, so I would think the meal cost a bit more on the menu. 2. If she offers it included in the pre fix menu price and it is equal to the same price whether you want that course of the meal, it is a bonus. Many woman leave the greek option open if the guy is just too big. However I would never ask if I have not seen the provider before.

if you are charging extra for Greek the topic will probably come up in the discussion over the phone or email, and there are euphemism you can use like island trip island cruise, or "you can bring your passport".  obviously, with each encounter YMMV, but if there are expectations it is important that they are met, otherwise it impacts the encounter and maybe the review. whether to charge extra or not, most greek speaking providers I met make it all inclusive, and I prefer that because the extra charge makes the encounter explicitly cash for sex than appreciation for time spent together.  (this world is full of euphemisms, but it keeps things civil and respectable). So I respectfully disagree about not talking with a provider you haven't met before, if you are gentle and sensitive about it. now from the provider's perspective, to reduce the risk of LE check the guy's references before discussing anything. also read his reviews to learn about his fetishes, since the reviews are about the hobbiest as much as the provider.

Madison, your profile suggests that you offer Greek, but that is incorrect I suggest you email the admin to fix it. if you are selective about your Greek friends you should address that on your rates or etiquette page.