I just had my first session with a provider this weekend  She was fantastic but I was mighty nervous.  I'm not sure why that was, I'm far from a virgin and have been with a wide variety of women in my life including recent history, but it felt like my first time all over again.  I had a quick flashback of being just past 16 in the back of my little SUV at a secluded spot by a local lake.  I had the same sort of feelings: the desire and attraction being overwelming but the performance just not being there.  "what do I do?"  "where do I put my hands?"  "was that gasp pleasure or discomfort?"  "oh crap, why's my erection half gone?" =))

So, aside from providing you all a little comic relief I'm wondering if this is common?  More a question for the providers than the hobbyists I suppose (I don't want to ruin anyone's rep as the Peter North of the hobby  Maybe my fellow hobbyists can comment on this though - I definitely was overthinking (obviously) and I think a lot of that was all of this protocol I had been reading (what can you say, can't you say, how to act, what's on menus, not on menus, blah blah blah).  Having been there now it's all just common sense really (for anyone with a clue I guess ) but anyone else experience the same?

or I could be unique and weird and I'm ok with that

Going back all those years again, I know my second time with that high school gf was fantastic and as awkward as the first was it's still a memory I hold dear; I'm sure this will be similar and now that I've been there and done that the next experience will feel much more comfortable and natural.

Thanks all!
bravotango

My very first visit a few months ago ended quite the same. I was so nervous upfront
about her being LE, that I never really settled in and never got rock hard. It wasn't the
best experience in the end, but it sure did get my adrenaline rushing. The next time
I saw a new provider, I made sure she was highly rated and took a little blue pill
before hand and it was fantastic. Ever since that experience, they have all been fantastic,
and I still get that rush every time I see someone new.

Eventually you'll get the hang of things. Any hobbyist who doesn't admit to some case of nerves the first time, is not telling the truth. Of course the first experience with P4P , will vary, the provider makes all the difference, especially the first time for a client. I saw a ter legend, and I was unbeleivable nervous driving to her incall.  She could see my nervousness, but she calmed me down and I had a great time.

Re: you are soooo normal

Yes, totally normal. I'm at number five over past few months and seem to get more relaxed each time. I'm sure I was overthinking first time too...this board helps a lot and the Los Angeles variety is amazing. Have fun, be safe and treat the girls well and you should get more at ease over time. My problem now is pacing myself now that I dig the hobby...trying to take the marathon versus sprinter approach. Better for my pocketbook that way!

I just wanted to say welcome new playmates!! Also, I am happy to hear that you had a great experience and many more to cum I am sure It makes me all wett just thinking about how the ladies treat you right!

xox
Amsterdam

...for the honest feedback.  I'm mighty comfortable in my own skin but it's also good to know that I'm not completely in left field

there will be more chances and more fun on this continuing adventure!

bravotango

read your review of MP Gigi.
She gave you a massage, a nice hj, she let you touch her breasts and took down her panties,
and you rated her 3?
You may have given her a nice tip, but you took it all back with your rating.

Posted By: BravoTango

I just had my first session with a provider this weekend  She was fantastic but I was mighty nervous.  I'm not sure why that was, I'm far from a virgin and have been with a wide variety of women in my life including recent history, but it felt like my first time all over again.  I had a quick flashback of being just past 16 in the back of my little SUV at a secluded spot by a local lake.  I had the same sort of feelings: the desire and attraction being overwelming but the performance just not being there.  "what do I do?"  "where do I put my hands?"  "was that gasp pleasure or discomfort?"  "oh crap, why's my erection half gone?" =))

So, aside from providing you all a little comic relief I'm wondering if this is common?  More a question for the providers than the hobbyists I suppose (I don't want to ruin anyone's rep as the Peter North of the hobby  Maybe my fellow hobbyists can comment on this though - I definitely was overthinking (obviously) and I think a lot of that was all of this protocol I had been reading (what can you say, can't you say, how to act, what's on menus, not on menus, blah blah blah).  Having been there now it's all just common sense really (for anyone with a clue I guess ) but anyone else experience the same?

or I could be unique and weird and I'm ok with that

Going back all those years again, I know my second time with that high school gf was fantastic and as awkward as the first was it's still a memory I hold dear; I'm sure this will be similar and now that I've been there and done that the next experience will feel much more comfortable and natural.

Thanks all!
bravotango

and given a thread a few posts up I'll never be invited back in an AMP if they figure out my TER handle

off topic but I'll respond seriously to your comment.  I stand by that rating.  Comparing to both the one other AMP experience I've had and now this one and only provider it's like the old sesame street song - one of these things is not like the other.  Two girls were definitely into the moment and providing a much higher quality of service than the other.  Using both the comparison and the objective descriptions on the number scale in the ratings I put her performance where I felt it belonged.  YMMV