So I'm a long time -- but very infrequent -- hobbyist.  I only visit these places once every year or two.  The problem is, by the time I get a hankering to re-visit, I've long forgotten the last girl I used and thus am constantly without a referral.  Even the couple times I've kept a number that provider has not been around when I'm back in the mix.  I then have to jump through hoops (desperately calling every provider on CV, giving them my work number, etc) to land an appointment.

Anyone know a solid way to get a referral (that satisfies the provider) that I can propose to a provider that doesn't require a number of a recently used girl?

Thanks!

Nope. That's the way you have to do it. Don't you have the number of the booker you used to arrange your last Kgirl visit? That's your key, man. Don't lose those numbers. They are certainly the most important ones in my rolodex!  

that usually helps.  Then you can refer back to your list.  If you're a nice guy, the ladies will whitelist you.  We can then see your list, use these ladies as references and contact them.

Always giving my 2 cents,
Laina

99% of the time I reach a full voicemail box, voicemail that wasn't set up, or a disconnected number.  And if I am lucky and get through to someone, they only text.  WTF? now I need to text my handler, my references, etc.?! Actually, I'm Anthony Weiner, I should be good at texting

Have you ever called any of the ladies that are listed as being "online now"? Too many complaints out there from people who don't write reviews. Either get with what it takes to be recognized or stop the bitching!

Start with long time reliable Indies like Su Young or Irene.

I do "get with the program" as I do write reviews, and my repur with the ladies is excellent.  you may not have noticed that my comment was written under an alias so I will let your condescending tone slide.

The problems with the k-girls, or more with their bookers, are:
1) Often hard to reach - no voicemail, full voicemail, disconnected numbers...you name it
2) Most bookers don't take references from non-k-girls, but the turnover of k-girls is such that your previous k-girl reference is not there anymore.  My taste in providers is more diverse, so I don't book k-girls that often to be known as a k-girl VIP.  
3) When they check references they text instead of call.  Texting is more of a custom in the k-girl circuit, and less with non-k-girls.  If my reference doesn't respond to text, but responds to phone calls easily, I still end up with my dick in my hand. Besides how good of a reference will you get by text versus a phone call?!

Is Su Young gone????? I havn't seen her adds up in a while now.  Anybody know?

once you seen one of the booker's girl then the phone number you used the booker's save it.  so any future calls it will show up as a past approved client on the booker's phone.  even if that girl retired long time ago.  heck, one time i called this one booker almost a year later and she knew right away who i was.

so either you full of shit  or you've changed your phone number.  well don't.  otherwise your going to always have to keep dialing till someone picks up, which it looks like your going to have to do.

I don't know why people flame you for writing a normal question. Something about the nature of forums, where people seem to love to get anonymously nasty.  

No easy answer to your question, I had same probl -- but I think trying girls who are posting on CityVibe as "available now" would increase your odds -- especially a K-girl who's available late at night -- they're usually not, so she may really want customers --- oth these may not be the very best girls ----- also  a new girl may be less choosy cause she wants customers (but you're taking more of a chance)  

I got an appointment with CL with very little check, and she was a great girl --- maybe I just got lucky, not sure ----

in some cases I've given bookers my website url, they would check it and decide that I was okay based on that ....  

You said you forget the girl's phone number (step one: don't forget the girl's phone number) -- but do you also forget her name? If you know the name, you can look her up on TER and,  even if she's not active anymore, her page is probably there including her phone number... so just get the phone number from that page and use it for your reference... it may work even tho the girl is out of action

what makes the booking dicey is, you don't want to ask for an appointment with several girls at once because, if two say yes, y'know, you have to get back to them and say you changed your mind which could make her unbookable in the future. ....  oth, when you contact them one at a time, it can take a long time to nail down an appt

Here's one other solution, have a little more fun in your life. Make it a point to book one of these girls every 3 months so you keep the chain going. Mark your calendar

I am going through the same thing now: been out of the hobby for about 1 year, most of my K-girl ATF's (and their bookers) have closed up shop, and I changed my phone number.

I'm not sure what happened here in LA to make everyone super-cautious (although a thread on that clown "Steve" gives some insight) but even though I am well-established with reviews here, I am having to go the independent route to re-establish my rep. It does take patience & perseverance.