I try to write honest reviews in a effort to help out other's seeking services of ladies. I do try to do it with some sensitivity, so I say honest to a point. Every now and then a provider contacts me and is mad about a less than steller review. For the first time, a provider said she is blacklisting me for a bad review. To me, this is equivelent to a client trying to use a review to get something more out of a provider, just that it's after the fact. I did everything by the book, and always do. I provide all requested information, I communicate well, I show up on time, I pay and never question ones rates, and I always treat the ladies well. But if I meet a lady that doesn't live up to expectations, I'm going to say as much in a review. After all, this is the point of having reviews. Should I be concerned now about being blacklisted and what does this even mean?
her and ask what she means by "black-listing". If she just means SHE will not see you again, then that is no big loss, right? But is she says she is going to post you name somewhere and slander you for writing an honest review, then ask her where she is going to do that. She probably won't tell you, so you tell her that you will have no recourse if she makes false claims about you but to start a thread about her on TER, and the fact that if she doesn't like your review, she will blacklist you, so customers should be wary of booking with her in the first place.
This happened to me once and this is how I handled it. I ultimately said that she should go her way and I will go mine. I will consider myself blacklisted from HER and I will not try to see her again, but if I hear she is slandering me over an honest review, it will get very ugly and her business will be negatively impacted.
ONE MORE IMPORTANT POINT, if you were careless enough to provide her with your ID, or give her your RL information, ignore this method of taking care of this problem or she can dox you, and that can be worse than being BL'd. If that's the case, and she knows where you live or work, just ignore any further contact from her and deal with whatever problems she creates, if any, as they come up. Another lesson that that once you give someone access to your personal information, they can bully you into submission. Kudo's for writing the honest review.
The other providers you have seen (assuming some of those 42 are recent) presumably are not upset about the review you provided and will act as references for you. I've also read at least once here where providers have said they don't really worry about someone's number being on a blacklist as long as it's not about something like violence or other serious worries if they see the guy.
Also, as long as you're writing honest and fair reviews I suspect you'll also have quite a few "good" reviews that any provider would be happy to receive. If so, I suspect other providers will simply look at this as an opportunity to get a good customer that some BSC lady passed on.
I appreciate the feedback. All good points.
Sorry this happened to you. Like you, I always try to be sensitive but honest. It's disappointing that someone didn't like that honesty.
I appreciate it's hard for some people (both men and women) to hear criticism, no matter how constructively it may be intended. I doubt most men would be very gracious if all their providers were posting reviews about them. I understand why some providers either delist from this site, or just never read their reviews, because it's hard to take any criticism about something so personal.
Hopefully this provider is only blowing smoke and "blacklisting" you from her personal services. I'd hate for it to spiral out further. As noted previously, your many good experiences with providers should outweigh this one bad experience.
Good luck.
some parts did raise some eyebrows. You downgraded her because she squirted and you worried she had preloaded her vagina with fake squirt?! Was there a turkey baster laying on her bed stand?
Isn’t this a case more of your insecurities than her performance? Do you see where the provider might have seen the review as not just honest, but unfair?
I'm sure the provider has her own point of view, and I get no pleasure in her reading it and feeling bad. I kind of wish she didn't read it. It's not intended for her, bur for others considering seeing her. But I get it. Some providers will read reviews. Also, if you read the review, it's not just one thing that's the issue. I admit in my review that the squirting is not something I can prove. But I'm not some new kid to the block. Perhaps her talent is she can just squirt on demand, idk. But for it to happen in about a minute flat caught me off guard. But if this was the only thing, there is zero chance I would have gave her lower scores. I'm typically very forgiving with a thing here or there. My review is about the overall experience and collection of issues.
Id be pretty excited about the early squirt. This lady got a number?
I haven’t read the review, but for me, squirting is a reason to upgrade – not downgrade.
Pee is pee! 😂😂😂
Female ejaculate is not urine.
Good article, and correct that female ejaculate is NOT urine, but female ejaculate is also NOT squirting.
Squirting IS pee. Female ejaculate is the lubrication from the woman getting turned on. Female ejaculate usually secretes, but doesn't come rushing and gushing out in liquid form - which is urine/squirting.
My greatest experience with female ejaculate was from a massage provider who was standing up, and FE began coming out of her and running down the inside of her leg just from me rubbing the back of her legs, butt, stomach and breats all while still face down. One the flip, I discovered how super-turned on she was because that was the first time my hand ever got near her Y. Already ejaculating without kitty or clit contact... OMG! I found that to be incredibly sexy.
And yes, the spontaneous unexpected squirt can also be sexy, and once I finish immediately after her squirt explosion, I head straight for the hot shower right away to wash her urine off me.
But hey... to each, his own. Stay safe out there!
Well yeah duh. I didn’t downgrade because of squirting lol.
I read your review. Yes the 'scores' were on the lower side, but the review itself was honest, articulate and actually complimented your date multiple times.
Hoping there's no retaliation towards you in the future...
Scores been so inflated in the past 10 years or so. I don’t personally see all 10/10 providers. She doesn’t even realize you did her a favor with those scores.
All this from the same lady who completely ghosted me just a few weeks ago.
back in the TER days of over ten years ago before the fosta/sesta turnover. There were many more reviews that were 8's and 7's. or even 6's in performance. There were many more reviewers that rarely gave 10's and 9's.
Zeel's review is more in line of the reviews of those days of the mid to latter 00's. A mixed bag review with plenty of good things about the lady and the performance but also the concerns which lowered the rating to a 7 or 6 when honestly summarized.
yes, I had done past reviews back then that were 7 or 6's and the russian lady (who was not the lady in the pics) had called me and threatened the LA 'russian mob' on me or something. But back then it would have be truly "once in a lifetime" to give a 9 or 10 for more reviewers back then who tried to make the rating system honest.
As we know today's reviews can be way more inflated along with shilling or just some worry of being blacklisted or not invited or open for a client to repeat again, if not putting a high rated review of no 7's or sometimes no 8's , for some very touchy providers in this day and age of u.s. escorting.
If some of you older long time members remember Amanda Leigh from Atlanta from back in 2006-2008. She was a rare one of those who truly deserved her maintained 9's and 10's in performance.
Every so often, you should download and check your "hobby phone #" on the Mr. Number mobile app. (We ALL know we should NEVER use our personal or work mobile phone right? At LEAST get a prepaid burner or a Google Voice #)
Mr. Number is where I have found providers post about flaky clients, or those who threatened/bullied them.
If you find you HAVE been listed there, you can contact Mr. Number, explain the circumstances and ask that they remove the negative mark and they will clear your number and "reset" your profile. Speaking from my first and only experiencea few years ago where the provider blacklisted me for a last-minute cancellation due to a flat tire on the way to the appointment. I even offered to pay her double on the next visit, but she blacklisted me anyway.
As someone who has actually met this lady, I d say your rating of her is low. And aside from low rating, you make an accusation that you cant prove. Any provider would get pissed by that accusation.
Your experience may not be everyone's experience, so honestly you seeing her doesn't really mean anything about my experience. As for the accusation, I very clearly say I can't prove it. But I did what most humans do. I read between the lines and brought up a concern based on the information that I did have. It's where we get the term educated guess. You can't tell me there has never been a time where you formed an opion you cannot prove that you felt good about based on what you did know. FWIW, since posting this I have received numerous private messages from others who had issues with her. I know I am not alone. But hey, I don't doubt you, and others, may have had a very different experience. Some people have good and bad days.
Where can u find this? This is nuts.
Good for you!