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Black listed for some reason
ssmith315 842 reads
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I think I am blacklisted or something by some of the Asian bookers because for some providers I never get a response when I call. I see a lot of providers and some of them multiple times. Does anyone know how to get off of this list or what is going on here?

ISOFBSM459 reads

I've seen some k-girls in recent times that might have been a B&S, maybe others just think she's totally hot, or are afraid to realistically rate her in fear as well and give her a 9 when I think she's 6.  I never post those reviews knowing what might happen.  Thus I only post the good experiences.  Sad, but don't want to get burned.

Which brings up something that I constantly kick myself for.  Once I find someone who I really enjoy, why do I try someone new and get myself burned???

I was told by one of the bookers that if I call from a land line, they will not respond!  I am not sure I understand, but I am sure that I was told that.

ssmith315482 reads

No I never posted until now. Thanks for the insight though.

ssmith315364 reads

No I haven't posted at all before, this is my first time posting anything. Thanks for the insight though.

Raoul.Duke435 reads

If your only evidence for being in a BL is you don't get call backs - that's not much evidence at all. I wouldn't assume you're on a BL just because they don't get back to you.

ssmith315415 reads

Mmmm okay. Should I just keep trying to call then?

1, or more providers maybe did not enjoy, or appreciate your company.  Maybe you were rude, or disrespectful to a provider?

I did not look, but for any reason a provider can blacklist you, so be nice fellas this is a 2 way street!

CaptainRenault361 reads

The BL can be abused, just as an untrue review is abuse.  Both are unfair, and TER should have some sort of appeal process in place for each.  I'm given to understand that the provider can indeed challenge a review, so it would seem fair that a hobbyist should be able to challenge a BL?  Gents and ladies, what do you think?

ssmith315308 reads

I'm a pretty friendly person and I treat all people with respect. I did have a couple cancellations at one point during my...career (I guess)...could that be a reason for it?

ssmith315446 reads

For a little more clarification

Here's a list of providers I've seen recently within the last month:
Sharon
Kelly
Aiai
Youjin
Tyche
Velo
Jiyoung


Here's a list of providers that I wanted to see, but did not get a call or text back from:
Lizi
Envy
Ona
Ani
Vivian
Leeca

LE_phobic512 reads

she blacklisted a guy who had many whitelists, becuz, after ref check, he was known to enjoy squeezing hard on nipples. I said, "Can't u tell him to stop?" She said, "that would create tension in a supposed to be loving GFE." By the same token, I always try to find out if a provider uses mouth wash conscientiously, becuz a foul DFK absolutely ruins the GFE for me. Yes, heed Madame P's 2-way street.

ssmith315376 reads

I have been called a "gentle and thorough lover by many ex girlfriends :( I never force providers to do anything.

Harpman60751 reads





It seems you are not getting responses from the 2 top bookers who are both efficient, and eager to get business for their K-dolls ( after all that is their job) but not at the expense of the safety or security of the K-dolls. 

Unlike some bookers who do not respond one the K-doll is booked for the day or is taking the off Leeca's and Vivian's bookers would respond even first time caller and ask for references, that is unless one is blocked or the number is know LE number.

This is purely speculation but looking  at you "have seen"  K-dolls  list, without having the facts I would suspect that if you were blacklisted it may be because of  something that  took place during your date with Velo or another K-doll using the same booker .

Bookers don't black list a client for no good reason. They seek respectful clients who who know the boundaries of the menu, does not short the K-doll,  punctual, clean, not rough or attempt to forcebbfs/Greek. I would not tolerate such behavior.

I suspect the Booker have a real or perceived  reason for not responding to you because this is a competitive business and without clients no income is generated.           

By the way Bookers ( and independents ) do sometime block reviewers whose reviews may not meet the bookers / provider's expectations. Our  respected bro Taquitoguy was a victim of such practice by Lita's booker as explained in the link below 

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=260322&boardID=1&page=#260322


Posted By: ssmith315
I think I am blacklisted or something by some of the Asian bookers because for some providers I never get a response when I call. I see a lot of providers and some of them multiple times. Does anyone know how to get off of this list or what is going on here?

Posted By: Harpman60




It seems you are not getting responses from the 2 top bookers who are both efficient, and eager to get business for their K-dolls ( after all that is their job) but not at the expense of the safety or security of the K-dolls. 

Unlike some bookers who do not respond one the K-doll is booked for the day or is taking the off Leeca's and Vivian's bookers would respond even first time caller and ask for references, that is unless one is blocked or the number is know LE number.

This is purely speculation but looking  at you "have seen"  K-dolls  list, without having the facts I would suspect that if you were blacklisted it may be because of  something that  took place during your date with Velo or another K-doll using the same booker .

Bookers don't black list a client for no good reason. They seek respectful clients who who know the boundaries of the menu, does not short the K-doll,  punctual, clean, not rough or attempt to forcebbfs/Greek. I would not tolerate such behavior.

I suspect the Booker have a real or perceived  reason for not responding to you because this is a competitive business and without clients no income is generated.           

By the way Bookers ( and independents ) do sometime block reviewers whose reviews may not meet the bookers / provider's expectations. Our  respected bro Taquitoguy was a victim of such practice by Lita's booker as explained in the link below 

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=260322&boardID=1&page=#260322


Posted By: ssmith315
I think I am blacklisted or something by some of the Asian bookers because for some providers I never get a response when I call. I see a lot of providers and some of them multiple times. Does anyone know how to get off of this list or what is going on here?

Harpman60493 reads

find out in previous and I am sure in  future posts independents can be even more vindictive and malicious by unjustly putting clients on national black lists and destroying their reputations if they could.

On April 1 an OC based provider who used to post her put a bro on a national black list because in an April Fools joke post he said he wen bbfs with K-doll. It was obvious to the dimmest wit that it was a joke but she used he joke to maliciously place him on the black list .

Let us not to be too fast in condemning the K-bookers for firstly putting the safety on the K-dolls first above or else or for doing what they wrongly believe is protecting the earning power of those they book. Based on my experience, which pre dates the K-dolls,  with home grown providers  are no better in not more vindictive.

The secret is to find honest providers irrespective of their ethnicities or culture and not be fearful for calling out tbe unscrupulous .

There is a danger in generalizing or sweeping under the rug the bad practices of those we are affiliated with.  

Posted By: Madame Patric

Re: Thanks very interesting another good reason to pick an independent! eom
Posted By: Harpman60


It seems you are not getting responses from the 2 top bookers who are both efficient, and eager to get business for their K-dolls ( after all that is their job) but not at the expense of the safety or security of the K-dolls. 

Unlike some bookers who do not respond one the K-doll is booked for the day or is taking the off Leeca's and Vivian's bookers see in  would respond even first time caller and ask for references, that is unless one is blocked or the number is know LE number.

This is purely speculation but looking  at you "have seen"  K-dolls  list, without having the facts I would suspect that if you were blacklisted it may be because of  something that  took place during your date with Velo or another K-doll using the same booker .

Bookers don't black list a client for no good reason. They seek respectful clients who who know the boundaries of the menu, does not short the K-doll,  punctual, clean, not rough or attempt to forcebbfs/Greek. I would not tolerate such behavior.

I suspect the Booker have a real or perceived  reason for not responding to you because this is a competitive business and without clients no income is generated.           

By the way Bookers ( and independents ) do sometime block reviewers whose reviews may not meet the bookers / provider's expectations. Our  respected bro Taquitoguy was a victim of such practice by Lita's booker as explained in the link below 

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=260322&boardID=1&page=#260322


Posted By: ssmith315
I think I am blacklisted or something by some of the Asian bookers because for some providers I never get a response when I call. I see a lot of providers and some of them multiple times. Does anyone know how to get off of this list or what is going on here?
-- Modified on 11/4/2012 3:32:17 PM

ssmith315402 reads

But if I see them multiple times what did I do wrong? I am very respectul to all the girls. I think it might be because I took a really long hiatus from seeing providers for a while and when I tried to get back in I had to cancel a few times. Do you know if there's a way to get off of it?

Harpman60404 reads

I have said all I want to say on a public board. PM me if want to discuss it further. Just based on your posts I suspect you have problems following directions.

Posted By: ssmith315
But if I see them multiple times what did I do wrong? I am very respectul to all the girls. I think it might be because I took a really long hiatus from seeing providers for a while and when I tried to get back in I had to cancel a few times. Do you know if there's a way to get off of it?

KGirlCrazy347 reads

OK, well that might be your answer right there. Canceling once in a blue moon is acceptable, if you are a good, frequent client. And even then, it's frowned upon. If you are new (or coming back after a long hiatus) then that is definitely one reason you may have found yourself on a no-go list. There is very little patience for unreliable people.

In the past two years, I have canceled exactly ZERO times on k-girls. That's how important the relationship is to me. Even if something comes up, I deal with it, and I don't cancel. You have to take it that seriously if you want to have full access to all of these beautiful wonderful ladies.

Harpman60764 reads

who accused me of writing harsh reviews and being mean. I could be accused of or credited with many things but not writing reviews. My crime was defending someone who gave her low scores in a review that called her on her x years older and y pounds heavier CV ad photos instead of the 10/10 she asks for ( I have a text she ask for  high score saved) and received of guys fearful of her vindictive retaliation.

Luckily for me all she had was my TER handle and that her reputation proceeded her so her blacklisting of me last January was pointless except it showed how unethical and corrupt she was for lying about my non existent review and how she was trivializing the black list which is intended to protect providers from predators, theirs, abusers and who ever is a threat to then,

Posted By: ssmith315
I think I am blacklisted or something by some of the Asian bookers because for some providers I never get a response when I call. I see a lot of providers and some of them multiple times. Does anyone know how to get off of this list or what is going on here?

Therealskinny414 reads

We all know the fatty you're talking about.
Even her "friends" in the business refer to her that way.

...characteristics?  Everyone would be up in arms about it.  It's not okay to call someone "fatty."

At least Harpman did not use that term even though he describes how he was allegedly aggrieved by that provider.  What's your excuse?

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