I just read a review and the guy wrote “I pounded the shit out of her and “I fucked her like I was killing her.”

I find this kind of attitude disrespectful and a turn off.  Am I alone?  If a provider reads this in a review, is she going to want to see him?  That can’t sound appealing to most providers.  I’d think they’d pass on seeing him.

I'm being polite here but whoever wrote that needs a slap in the face.

I find this behavior to be totally disrespectful & it’s a huge pass for me. We are all human. Kindness is hard to find these days. I have empathy. We have feelings too.

Sounds more like an animal than a person.

He also said to his date "It puts the lotion on its skin."

... and was actually appalled.   It didn't arouse me at all and most of the "good" reviews I read are quite arousing.

The challenging part is, if he doesn't tell her his TER handle, she won't know he's writing this kind of stuff about her.  

But I also read those types of reviews and wonder if that is actually a true description or if the guy has serious performance problems. Their own self loathing causes them to say shit they think makes them sound more manly or something. Either way, it is a (big) sign they need some counseling.