I don't know what is GFE. I just want someone who is completely available. I don’t want someone who approaches me penis first, thinking I am a puzzle they have already solved. I have not yet met a woman who is truly connected to herself and can share that with me. I have had girlfriends and they are more in to themselves and just showing up than to actually having a conversation and communicating what they really need. This doesn’t involve penetration, just communication. What is this called?
this is a business
the chicks try hard to make us happy during the time together but that's all you should expect. anymore than that is intrusive into her private space.
over time, freindships can develop but it should not be expected or sought out, you'll wind up broke and disappointed!
looking for it on www.match.com.
see that's the trouble. I am certainly not looking for conversation or a friend. Just someone who can be physically present and connected. Most ladies think showing up is all thats required.
i know there are some gals that seem distant, but they usually are lower rated and not highly recommended.
I know personally I have the illusion I have connected with some of the ladies I've seen
That's about the best you can hope for from this.
any provider that you leave and has made you feel like a king in your little kingdom is awesome.
If you leave a provider and the after glow of the session lasts with you for a while..that one is ATF material....
Beemer lingering....
I know personally I have the illusion I have connected with some of the ladies I've seen
So you started this post and I honestly still don't know what it is you are looking for.
Be more specific, what do you mean by someone who can be physically present and connected? I don't know how they could not be physically present so that simply doesn't make any sense. The connected part of your comment I could make some assumptions on but still not sure.
Just as it sounds, it is a Girlfriend Experience. Have you had a sexual encounter with a girlfriend? How did that go, how do you expect it to go? Now, depending on the amount of time you have I believe the experience can lets say expand in scope greatly as you add more time. However, I think 1 hr is min and if that is your time with a GFE provider you should expect what a girlfriend would provide once you have started engaging in sexual relations. When I have sex with a GF it usually starts with a lot of LFK, DFK, then some good foreplay where uncovered oral or touching each other occurs. This then leads to covered FS with DFK where honestly we both finish in a passionate sweaty heap.....Honestly something like CIM may be a service your girlfriend will provide but for me it is usually provided because she doesn't want sex herself....But if this is also expected as part of a GFE that is fine add it in there. One you finish in a heap, correct me if I am wrong gals, but all of my GFs want to be held and cuddled.....I too like this and is expected in a GFE if the man wants it. Now if you add more time, then the GFE can expands greatly to include engaging conversation with the provider prior to the main event, maybe a date which includes sharing a meal and maybe a drink together. And then leads you back to the BR where the above mentioned sexual encounter is played out.
Wiki describes GFE as: "The "girlfriend experience" generally involves more personal interaction than a traditional call girl or escort offers; it varies widely from person to person, however. There is a focus on not just having sex, but also having more of a comprehensive experience.
A call girl advertising the provision of a "girlfriend experience" is implying that she provides deep french kissing (DFK), "full service" (intercourse) usually with protection, and fellatio and cunnilingus, both with or without protection. Advertising a "girlfriend experience" is sometimes used by call girls to promote business.
If you don't want sex as a part of this, maybe you should consider a stripper or something..I don't know....but then again I would bet that most GFE providers who speak your own language would be willing to provide the service you describe if you ask.
It's not like looking at the Kelly Blue Book for used-car values.
GFE is such an overused term with so many different meanings.
But your post was very descriptive and in many ways very correct. I just would stop short of believing that everyone agrees with this definition. Usually the hangups are in multiple pops or whether a girlfriend will allow you to finish in her mouth, much less spit vs. swallow.
But I agree that if a girl doesn't do a BBBJ or DATY, then it's hard to see that it's GFE.
YMMV is always a key point regardless of what the definition defines because we have the freedom to decline services based on anything.
It's just a fantasy that seems so real. As with anything that involves humans it all has to do with chemistry and connection. The most professional providers are able realize your wishes but even they may be challenged if you have personality , behavior or hygiene issues.
No doubt the fantasy and feeling of reality can be enhanced greatly when the two people have developed some connection. But I too would echo that it is still a fantasy that you are paying for.
There is a reason why we use the YMMV phrase so often. If you go see a provider that others have reported on being what you want and you don't get that, sometimes you need to look in the mirror.....As Harp said, even the best will be completely repulsed and off her game if you are a jerk and/or show up looking and smelling like a slob.
the fantasy any day , have no time for any doll who attempts to turn it real or sympathy for me if I go along and later get burned.
There is a reason why we use the YMMV phrase so often. If you go see a provider that others have reported on being what you want and you don't get that, sometimes you need to look in the mirror.....As Harp said, even the best will be completely repulsed and off her game if you are a jerk and/or show up looking and smelling like a slob.
rolling over with a bored look on her face, concluding with, "don't forget to take out the garbage!" Or have I just had poor choices in my girlfriends?
As my good buddy, Bill Clinton would say, it all depends upon what "is" is! GFE seems to mean a bunch of different things to people here. All I know is I NEVER rely on that phrase to assume that it means anything about any specific activity or attitude. That's also why I harp on the get a VIP membership so you can search for what you want specifically, narrow it down to a the ones whose pictures float your boat then read thru all of their reviews with a critical eye.
I think this is SOE (Significant Other Experience) or WE (Wife Experience) you speak of LOL.
I think most of us think of it as the GFE you get when the relationship is new and and you are falling in love/lust with each other.....I would honestly say when I get a good GFE from a provider it is easily a GFE+ as they do things no girlfriend I ever had would do or they simply do it far better.....Of course maybe I too have not made the best choices either.....
Sounds like you're more looking for a shoulder to blubber on than a no strings P4P "paramour".