...I have simply neglected.  Or at least been en route to meet the gentleman, and through texting and emailing at the last moment have decided that when it comes down to it, I am not interested in meeting anyone for a 1 hour rendezvous.  I suppose once I have met them for an initial tryst lasting more than 1 hour ( and no, 1 hour and 1,2,3,4,5,etc. minutes does not count) I am more than happy to see them again.  But, I must apologize for doing any of this such non sense to those that have tried to recently set anything up with me.  I go into it knowing most DEFINITELY the sexual & sensual more than 1/2 of me wants to play- badly.  But, as emails come and go and everyone can either provide a reputable reference that will get back to me in good time, or not, I have become picky.  How typical of a woman, right?  Either way, I just thought it would only be proper to not only extend my apologies for those I have chosen to cancel on, but for those that have gotten the wrong idea about my reasons or doubts that have led me to not meeting them.  
I find beauty in someone's personality and I know, I know....this is not about having a relationship with the person, but all I am really asking for is some form of connection.  A little bit of chemistry.  With that, I guarantee it always goes a very long way.  
Thanks for letting me get that off my shoulders...and now let the bashing and smashing begin.....

All my best to all of those that have been patient with me- you know I will always make things just right- any night.

Kisses,
Kristen Klein

...If a hobbyist had a pattern of changing his mind on his way to see providers who were expecting him, he'd be on every blacklist around.

Kristen,  I thank you for being patient with me and always working around my sometimes hectic schedule.  Oh, and once we get our schedules together we do have a GREAT time don't we?  You have ROCKED my world on many occasions!

I have had the pleasure of meeting a few ladies who I was able to "click" with & that chemistry & connection thing you speak of was there. WOW!! What a difference as compared to those times when there was no connection or chemistry. I'm not saying those times were bad.......they just weren't the quite the same.

On the flip side, some gents can't do more than an hour. However, there are plenty of really nice, sexy ladies for them to see. I think someone made the analogy of comparing wine. Good comparison.

Searching for that "connection & chemistry" usually translates into hobbying with less frequency because it is hard to find. That's why I usually stick to the ones who I have it with. You know, "FWB's"

...that this is supposed to be a hobby.  Something fun, enjoyable, an activity we can all enjoy in our spare time or the time we have set aside from our hectic and very stressful lives to just forget about the rest of the world and have fun.  
As one of the comments read that I have canceled en route to the meeting, and how very different that would be should it be the other way around, I would like to make note that the very same thing has happened to me, and I have not taken such actions as to bad mouth them or go to the extent of blacklisting them.  If that is something that a hobbyist has to fear when wishing to cancel with a provider, I believe you have perhaps chosen the wrong type of provider to see.  Because should a gentleman have good references and by no means mean for the cancellation to be intentional, there should be an understanding on the other end that understands his cancellation and in turn doesn't threaten to blacklist him or provide him bad reference.  And even if this provider has gone to the end of the earth to blacklist you, know that you have your perfectly acceptable and easy to reach references from previous ventures that will always gladly speak up and vouch for you.

On another note, I wish to explain that with my original post, I by no means was trying to put such word out there that it's 2 hours or nothing.  I am instead wishing to let those interested know that I am a very easy going person and that I understand schedules may be tight, so please don't contact me looking to slip me into a 1 hour slot of your day- it just will not be worth it.  Instead, let me know what time you do have to work with and we can work something out from there.

As my site has been password protected for some time now, I have been toying with the idea of whether or not I should keep it password protected.  It has been about 2 months of me going back and forth and I have yet to make up my mind.  Simply because should I wish to password protect it, I would more than likely wish to have one site for anyone I have yet to meet, and then one for those of you I have already met.  So, in the mean time while I figure out what is what, here is a general user name and password to my site.  I have changes that are still in the making so please bare with me.

User name: enjoy
Password:  viewing

Thanks for all of the feedback again.  It is greatly appreciated.

Best,
Kristen

it is also one of the songs I enjoy playing as the meeting begins...

After all you provide a service in which you are heavily involved with the client as opposed to some other kind of service where there is little contact with the client.  

Money can't be and should not be everything.  I respect people more who will turn away opportunities to make money if the circumstances presented is not their preference, even if the client has no red flags and seems like a good person.  It shows that greed is not in in their system.  

You need to get some something out of the session, too which is awesome.  It means that whoever your client is, that their time with you is going to be very special instead of just good, at least that is the goal.  No one can quite know what will happen until they actually meet.  

You strive to bring your sensuality, and entire being opened up to the time spent together instead of just a hot body.  It makes a huge difference and I'm sure it's very, very appreciated by those who have seen you before.

Great message.  Actually makes you more interesting to me ...

...wood.

MA: Mission Abort!

Exactly.  Thank you for your post. It's not so much about the donation, as it is the time you (as a hobbyist) have set aside for yourself.  That time- the unrushed, relaxed and easygoing time frame is exactly what I enjoy spending my time with.  I used to be able to do the 1 hour "drive-thru's" (I have begun to call it that), but now those are only available to those clients I have met previously and for those clients, I will do anything for.  Last minute, incall/outcall....the sky is the limit.  Because I enjoy being able to suit their specific needs and exceed their expectations.

The day Providers stop charging by the hour. It's not a Hobby, it's a Profession.  I'm all about Chemistry but it's hard when the focus of some is "Time is Money.". As far as the comment about the fear of Blacklisting and the wrong type of Provider, I think we've all seen the sweetest ladies turn vicious at what they perceive to be a bad review.  

I know - all Hobyists are @$$holes and all Providers psychos. I'm just saying, while I find your post sincere, I also find it helluv naive. NCNS on me and I'll blow up the Boards about it - just like any woman I've seen would blow me up if I NCNS on her. P4P is supposed to reduce if not eliminate the BS we experience in the civie world!

My 1-1/2 cents.

You have every right to set a 2-hour minimum for new clients, the same way I have every right to set a 1-hour maximum for any lady that I have never seen before. I won't book 2 or more hours unless I know she's my type and we will have fun together. Otherwise, I wind up spending 1 hour and 59 minutes wishing I was somewhere else.