Don't give her chocolates. We need these ladies to stay in shape! How about a Victoria's Secret gift certificate? Or some scented candles? Or a nice bottle of wine?
Seeing a hot Asian provider and usually bring a box of chocolates but not sure how much Asian women are into American chocolate, thought of flowers but was hoping for any imput. Spare me the "gold is always good" comments. Thanks
Don't give her chocolates. We need these ladies to stay in shape! How about a Victoria's Secret gift certificate? Or some scented candles? Or a nice bottle of wine?
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I would suggest a basket of goodies from an upscale market or store or perhaps a gift card from Target or even Victoria Secret.
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no offense, but those ladies are already giving a cut to the house.
although chocolates, wine or flowers are nice and sweet, the will likely have more use for money than the trinkets.
ladies like gifts, sure, but an agency girl will more likely appreciate cash since they don't get to keep all their earnings anyway.
to get to know the provider first before giving gifts.
Everything you mentioned sounds fine. Though I have seen a few Asian providers and my favorite does keep sweets around, but she eats very little of it because she doesn't want to gain weight. Last time I was there I ended up leaving with a box of cookies. Another time, she gave me a giftbox of very nice chocolates and would not eat even one with me. But, that's her. Others may enjoy.
A decent bottle of champagne might fare better, but only if she drinks.
The thought and consideration is even more important than the gift. Cash as a New Years gift would be appreciated. The secret is to know the likes and dislikes of the girl choose the gift accordingly .
You can assumes these girls get a bundle of VS garments and perfume/fragrance bottles, it is just too obvious and the equivalent to taking coal to Newcastle. If you are not the familiar with the girl a fruit basket , white wine or something in that vein would suffice.
Make sure you do not go over the top in the a mount you spend, as it is the thought that count and with the exception of a handful most of the K-girls are 90 day wonders.
Everything you mentioned sounds fine. Though I have seen a few Asian providers and my favorite does keep sweets around, but she eats very little of it because she doesn't want to gain weight. Last time I was there I ended up leaving with a box of cookies. Another time, she gave me a giftbox of very nice chocolates and would not eat even one with me. But, that's her. Others may enjoy.
A decent bottle of champagne might fare better, but only if she drinks.
an ipod with my itunes collection - about 2000 songs
also a portable player / charger
5 asian sweethearts have received these
gives them music to pass the time and get familiar with a wide variety of american tunes- rock jazz blues pop
no complaints
it was cool to see a naked Thai Dara sing along with katy perry on "California Gurls"
so cute with a heavy thai accent
give them something to remember their time in Los Angeles california
dont be cheap !
It may seem romantic and thoughtful to bring chocolate and/or flowers, but the reality is they are doing a job, you're not going on a date. A cash tip is the best option if you feel you need to give a girl something for a thank you. I'm confused by your post, why do you usually bring a box of chocolates if your'e sure if they even like them? If I decide I'm going to come back to see a girl again, I just ask her if she'd like for me to bring her something next time. The response most of the time, is something to eat. They can't go out, or don't have stuff in the fridge. That's more thoughtful than some flowers or chocolate, in my opinion. Bring her a bag of some nice fruit, you'd get more mileage than a box of candy.
I ended up bringing a bottle of nice Champagne and I think she would have preferred the chocolates but was still happy for the gift. I had a great time and I think I'll take the suggestion of fruit next time or just a tip. Thanks for the feedback.
are not handed re-gifted to the client that follows you. What a way add insult to injury.
I used to feel the same way about an ATF. Lingeries was a usual gift for me to give but then was convinced that it is like "giving snow to an eskimo". It is a nice gesture but ultimately a benign gift such as fruit or a small snack to get them through their day.
My current ATF's will be getting some nice boxes of assorted Tea. I think everyone wants to give chocolates or wine or whatever but remember, if the girl is very popular, how many other guys are thinking the same thing. I recall that one ATF had a big tray of chocolates by her door and was dying to give it away but I would always politely refuse.