Not saying you have medical condition's.

But if you ask that question to her?

Does she have the right to ask you the same question?

I would just play the game of luck?

I'm sure that there are many girls that probably have some form of std. But will not reveal it cause
all they want is " benjamin's " or " Jackson's".

The truth is that very few people get tested regularly.

You really need to take precautions, but realize that if you are this worried about getting some kind of disease from kissing and oral sex...well, this is really the wrong activity for you.

All that glitter's aint gold! lol I love this statement.

True indeed, but not many providers will be open to disclosing personal information about their medical history.  This is a topic I think of often because I have an SO & a family as well, so choosing who you play with is very important.  Your smart, but this is unrealistic.  I personally, get tested on a regular basis & am happy to say I am free from any infections, or disease.  I am positive many provider's are infected & do still provide services. (unethical & immoral) This is not right.

Kissing, & DATY is a huge risk your obviously, aware of the outcome provided she is infected you would usually be able to detect some sores around the area. Good luck!

As the others have said - this is a risky game and, if you play long enough, you will catch something. There is very little you can do to avoid it. Especially something like oral Herpes, which is very easily transmitted.

That said, I have exchanged STD tests with certain ladies who I see often. At that point, you have a closer relationship, so you can ask for things that you might not get if you asked on the first visit.

Not that it's a fool-proof plan. She or I could catch something the next day, or the next hour, and then that old test is useless. So that brings us back to point #1: some level of risk is unavoidable in this business.