I had a thought and was curious what you hobbyist think.

Is part of the reason for using a provider strictly because you get tired of all the regular dating BS?

The wine and Dine, the movies, the blah blah and even after all that, sometimes you don't even get a kiss...lol

The logical thought process I would have is , "well it costs me $$?  and it takes me ??dates before I have a chance of getting lucky, so this way is much more simpler, prize guaranteed and less wasted time"

I think I already know the answer based on that break down but I still am curious

Having fun as always

Kim

For me, the ultimate prize to make a provider my outside girlfriend.  Its not for everyone.  You have to be okay with other guys fucking your girl.  You run that risk with civvie girls, too, but you just don't know about it.  

There are many advantages to seducing a provider into becoming your outside girlfriend, but the important ones for me are:  1) providers are automatically programmed to be available for sex on YOUR schedule, not theirs, and 2) running their business keeps them just as busy as I am running mine, so you can get away with seeing them a couple of times a week, and you don't get the incessant texting you get with most civvie girls, especially at night when you want to relax after work, because they're still working.  

It takes a long time to learn the techniques in making the transition from paying customer to non-paying boyfriend, but once you get there, its he best of both worlds.  A wrong move or word and it can all blow up in your face.  

you are probably right Kim? A sure thing is a sure thing. Married guys may not have the available time to wine and dine, but there are all kinds of different circumstances for hobbyists as to what and why they see providers.

The wine and dine, the movie, the blah, blah, blah has its place in coupling on the sunny side of the street, but it isn't so much that guys cross over so as to skip that part, I don't think, it's more because so often that routine fails to deliver the desired outcome.

Dating is thought of as getting to know one another, but IMO it's partly about getting in sync with each other and seeing if we like tuning in to the other's dynamics or not, and partly about finding out if the potential partner is someone who turns them on in a significant way. Is she the person I hoped she'd be? That's a question I probably asked a lot back when, although I only remember the answer I decided on: either she's everything I've been looking for, or, I don't think I want to get involved with this one.

So for the fantasy, you can pick one you think you'll like in a superficial sense. The joke in the case of the hobby is that what a woman in her role of provider puts forth as her persona is what she thinks is beautiful, so she presents in the superficial expression something that reveals a very true insight into who she really is.

If she thinks guys like bubbly vivacious ladies, and displays that, she reveals that bubbly and vivacious is something beautiful, something to be valued. That says more about who she is than you'll probably learn over dinner.

most guys here are married or have a so
THen no time  or obvious They do not want exposure themselves  in public on dates  

2 single  guys
They have no desire to be trapped  in a  relashionship  
Or maintain phone calls tax messages and  drama  

3 they do not know how to hunt ..smiling ..

One more thing  
This bla bla bla dinner movies is part of hunting
can be fun if there no bs games envolved .
But think is better u invite a girl to  a short travel give her LOT LOT WINE ..420  
THen u can hunt and eat your dessert easy LOL

I almost Eat a great cannoli last week but didn't not happen yet!
Well I am an immigrant  

Things are diferent in Europe

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My best friend is my Uncle (Mother's Brother) (he has basically be there for me for as long as I can remember)
and he tell me that the biggest mistake a girl can make is try and think like a man.  He said the trick is to just be you and men love it when a girl is just real. (BUT he did say can't be a real Bitch though!!..lol )
 So that is all I ever try to be real but not a bitch...hehe

..lol

You are ...really..now that is interesting...you never told me that in your email

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When they skip the dessert. There is nothing worse then seeing a perfectly wonderful and ready-to-be-eaten Tasty Cannoli go wasted and un-enjoyed. It's almost too much to handle (the situation not the cannoli!!!).

lol

and what I'm hungry for.

I am on the same boat. It doesn't mean I am filthy rich. It's just my time is more limited than money.

I would enjoy the dating process, if I am not married.

Are you married to a super chill surfer in OC?

My head would fall off if you were my SO! but It sure as shit would recharge our relationship!!

Funny ...that u  mention ... last week they reopen a bakery where use to eat My favorite Traditional  Canolli Sicilian  
OMG !!!!!!!
  THE QUALITY !!! after all this years were  impeccable !!!
Or even better
Hope they stay open  for long time....
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