I actually prefer email first just cuz it's easier. If the lady prefers over the phone, I prefer text. I can send and receive any time. I can't always call. Many providers don't want "improper" language, at least at first. After a couple of contacts, I like her to take the lead in a flirtatious exchange. Then we start to have some fun.

get all the verification information out of the way and get to know a little more about the client. And then once we've established some common ground and a better ''friendship'' and then I prefer texting after that. I like to send over ''sexy texts / stories about what I want to do to you what I'll be wearing [or not] when we meet, what type of toy play you like to do and use etc.. It's fun to get to know you better before meeting so when we finally do the anticipation build up is everything. It's like hooking up with an old friend.

It’s fun to verbally have sexy incinuations on a date, and staying connected before the date to stay connected can be necessary. I find it most efficient to talk through the dashboard, emails are overloaded lol. Phone texting is great too.
I took “Dirty Talk” off my profile, because I can only let my date know with dirty cues per se.

Sometimes!