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Looking for provider to be my S/O
if any of you ladies,are anything like my provider(she has her head on straight)...
I'm game to see if it would work...What the hell
civee relationships don't always work out either.
At my age(52)....the jealousy thing,is a thing of the past.(it's one of the upsides of being 52)
As long as i'm the one you want to see at the end of a long day,more than anyone else......I'm game!...Provider's need luv also.That's one thing i have lots of to give...Now to find a provider,who is looking!Drop me line,if you are.
looking for love in all the wrong places.
We'll see!....Can't hurt to try!
Why are you posting this on the legal board?
Maybe try the "In Search of" board...
Didn't realize that i had posted on this board.Thought i had clicked on general discussion
Honest mistake.Thanks for the advice on "in search of"
Brennan...i'm having a brain cramp(lack of sleep)
not sure whay you mean.
ps,My god,what's in the water in LA,that creates
such beauty!....Because you are the essence of pure beauty!(wow)
because of the fact that failed SO relationships often can end up in court over various issues.
In any case, I'm not one to automatically gainsay the idea of accepting a provider as an SO as I have done so myself; however to start off hobbying with the intent of finding an SO is rather like drilling for oil and hoping that you find some diamonds while you're at it.
It isn't all that likely.
There are more downsides to dating a provider than dealing with the jealousy issue. You have to consider that their schedules are erratic and then there's the whole question of how you introduce her to friends and families when the subject of how you met and what do you do for a living comes up.
As for the jealousy issue I commend you for overcoming it but are you prepared to hear your SO say that she is just too tired for sex tonight after she has come off of a long shift?
You might want to pursue this further with The Love Goddess down on The Erotic Highway Board.
(still not a lawyer, or love councillor)
The older i get,the more i'm willing to take risks.Can't take any when i'm dead and gone.
So i say,what the hell,"go for it" and let the chips fall where they may!..Just thought if there
were a mature provider out there,maybe even getting close to ending their career(or not),that may be looking for a good man,to support her emotionally,i'm willing to take the risks.Hell 1/2 of the civee relatiohships don't last.I had to walk the straight and narrow,during 30 yrs of my marriage.I'm just ready to be me again.A go against the grain type person,with some of that teenage rebellion left in me.The only difference now,is that i'm responsible,mature and financially stable.I have alot to offer another person...Like i've heard some of the ladies mention,"provider's need lovin too"...so here i am!..thanks for your input though,i respect it!
As they say, there's no fool like an old fool.
Old....Fool....thanks for the compliment!....to bad some folks on this site,can't treat us like our provider's treat us........With Respect!
It does seem unusual looking for an SO by profession. I have met a few providers who --had things been different-- would have made me try to develop an SO relationship, but I can't imagine starting out looking for an SO who is a provider or say an accountant or a dentist.
Why....i think they would make a great S/O....unless of coarse,they treat their S/O...
differently than their clients...Then again,i may be just living in a fantasy world!
I don't know, a great deal of woman are doing that as we speak, looking for their true love by financial stability and profession. Whats so wrong with wanting to be with someone who most likely will not have any sexual hang ups I guess. It is a bit unusual but then again it takes all kinds.
It is a business as well though and not something most woman get into to find a partner, so I wish you good luck with that...
Nicole
Thank you Nicole!...BTW,i just read your, "about me"
and viewed your pics(i shouldn't have)I'm doing the 45 day, no masterbation thing, that the love goddess suggested.Excuse me for a moment,I have to go take a cold shower!
ps,you would do just fine as a s/o.Are you looking?
For whatever it is worth, let me share my experiences. In the 90s I had three relationships with providers. Two owned massage parlors and one was a worker. All were Korean, which I think makes a difference.
I never had problems with jealousy. In fact, each relationship was just great. The Koreans seem to keep two separate sets of mental books. All three were very religious (two Presbyterians and one Catholic). All went to church regularly and the two Protestants were active in supporting various missions. When one would come to stay with me for the weekend, I had to find her a Presbyterian church for her to attend. And she attended every Sunday!
With all of them I got a "professional" level of sex. Naturally, they knew what to do and did it.
When the relationships ended, it had nothing to do with their profession. All three just kept the two lives separate. For example, the dressed very conservatively. The just lived in two separate worlds. I would talk about the two owner/providers. To them it was business and business is simply separate from their private lives.
I never dated a non-Korean provider, so I cannot comment on American ladies, or even ones from other cultures than Korean.
In summary, it worked fine for me.
do you prefer hourly rate, daily rate, weekly rate or longer engagement? I am sure everything is negotiable. Best wishes.
Like Mr. Fisher, I am definitely not a lawyer.
I'll take my chances!.....thanks for the input though.
Ya know one of the things i hated when i was a little kid?I was told i had to color between the lines.Now that i'm an adult,...i think you get my drift!...Just think how unhappy we would be,if our providers decided not to color outside the lines!
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