is providing tantra illegal?
not massage
not body rubs
but tantra?

If any portion of your body (or his) touches any part of the other's anatomy that is considered a sex organ (and sometimes that goes for nipples), and this is done for compensation of some type, then it is prostitution and you could (and probably will) be arrested for it if some vice cop has a mind to.

There just ain't any free lunch out there.  (Except Rhode Island and that's about to go away too.)

(still not a lawyer)

I have heard some say to ask your client to expose themselves or to touch the provider to ensure they are not dealing with the police. What is the best way to stay within legal boundaries when providing sensual massage. Is prostate massage illegal?