are you serious? how can they make an arrest if they haven't even solicited me yet? That's crazy. So, are these guys allowed to get undressed? i like the idea of references. Thank you so much for the advice, I really appreciate it.
Megan
Posted By: mrfisher
They are not going to give themselves away by anything so simple and also once you are in the room with them, your goose is already cooked.
So, this leaves us with screening.
The basic tenet of screening is to learn enough about your prospective client to allow you to feel safe.
For some gals, that is getting lots of personal information; for others it's references, either through a screening agency or from other providers whom you can identify as legit.
Only you know the level of security that will make you feel safe. You will have to accept it as axiomatic that the higher level of screening you employ, the fewer clients you will have.
It's a trade off everyone has to make.
As you progress in this business, you'll develop a sense of how much care you need to take but until then, stay on the careful side.
Also, use the resources of the provider only boards and sites which have information on bad clients and the like, and also avail yourself of the various on line sites where you can read up on all aspects of the hobby.
Best wishes to you.