I definitely think you should be stringent about screening. Screening also serves to keep you safe from psychopaths and other undesirables. It would be useful to run the name of each prospective client through the provider blacklist sites in addition to the usual two references approach or whatever else you're using.
I searched the boards for domination and did not find any results. I offer domination sessions with no sex, more like spanking, humiliation, etc. I was wondering from the more experienced providers here a couple of things.
1) As I do not offer sex as part of my services, and am very clear about that, what is the likelihood of being engaged in LE operations?
2) I just got a message from a gentleman who specified a fetish involving tongue contact with an area only a proctologist should be investigating. I repeated that such an activity is oral sex and off limits, he then asked if I would offer that type of session for a higher session cost, I told him no and wished him luck on his search. Was that likely LE fishing? By the way he also asked about completion and I said I would allow him privacy in the bathroom after session to attend to any personal matters.
Any advice? I am in florida by the way. I have been doing this king of thing over the phone for a long time, and have just recently started allowing in person sessions.
I don't know where you are advertising, but search for a bdsm specific sites and advertise there.
TER has a fetish section and I listed my site there, but my questions really did not have anything to do with where I am listed. My questions had to do with legal issues, which is why I listed the question here.
If you advertise in bdsm specific sites, you are more likely to get clients who are more familiar with manners and protocols.
...are not creative enough to ask for analingus.
Cops also want a slam dunk case -- good, old-fashioned boinking or oral sex which a judge and jury can understand. It may be a gray area (or brown area) as to whether rimming is prostitution. Is it $ in exchange for sex? Probably, since he would experience sexual gratification from the act. But I just can't see a cop testifying: "Yes, your Honor, I gave her $xxx for the privilege of licking her bunghole."
Once he mentioned 'completion', he mentioned a sexual act and you should not see him.
BTW, I think cops might be nervous showing up at a domme's place knowing she has whips, ropes and handcuffs of her own.
I can't say for sure this is legal, but before receiving any $, you can try to tie your clients up and frisk them for handcuffs, communications devices and stinkin' badges.
LOL I had not really thought of cops not wanting to enter a scene where the 'victim' has her own restraints. I have actually considered I may have more of a worry of charges of kidnap or false imprisonment from a sting.
I did not read and just posted almost the same question. I apologize for that.
I do not allow my kink pets to touch me either. As in there is ZERO SEXUAL ANYTHING...and yes if they need to handle business I do ask them to go to the bathroom.
I really would like an answer to the question....
And welcome To TER....Goddess Jenn!!!
Now if we could just get a kink board I would be in heaven!!
GoddessJennifer, I sent you a pm
sorry I don't get PMs LOL I don't want to post my site here but I am linked in the fetish section under orlando if you want to contact me privately.
You should avoid any mention of anything illegal in any ads;Same goes for communications. If someone ask for explicit (and illegal acts) that's a red flag - don't respond, or if you do, say you don't offer that.
If someone arrives for a session, before any disrobing occurs; just ask them to "get comfortable, then excuse yourself to the bathroom - LE will seldom, if every get naked first, while most hobbyist will. Since its adomination session, you can also sit down on the bed ans direct them to begin by worshipping and kissing your feet. Again, that's something LE generally won't do. if they don't do one of the foregoing, simply stay with a vanilla menu, offer to spank them while they are clothed, or place a collar, cuffs or ball gag in their mouth - again, LE won't do that. Ask them to sip a golden cocktail...there are lots of things like this that LE won't do, but a serious hobbyist should take the bait on one (whichever is his fetish) and thereby give you comfort.
Paying for acts of sado-masochism is part of the definition of prostitution in some states,do research for your state specifically. Also some things may be in a grey area such as golden shower (fluid exchange) or strap on training...
This can all get very complex.
Simone
All of that is very good information to have, thanks. As I am not a full service provider should I still be as stringent about screening as other ladies? I don't really screen too carefully right now
I definitely think you should be stringent about screening. Screening also serves to keep you safe from psychopaths and other undesirables. It would be useful to run the name of each prospective client through the provider blacklist sites in addition to the usual two references approach or whatever else you're using.
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