okay...I have a bad situation with a former client that is getting worse. This guy is threatening to tell my family and friends what I do and all sorts of other crap. Just because I told him I didn't want to see him again.

I have seen him about three times. met him on a sugardaddy site. The last time I talked to him I told him I didn't want to continue the arrangement, and he got all stalker me. He has changed his name like three times trying to make a date with me, and I messed up the first time and didn't recognize it was him till he showed up at my door! I told him to leave and he did. Then he posted some BS that I had pulled and then still tries to contact me.

I got a text from him just the other day with a photo of himself flipping me off. And, he just came up with a whole new identity trying to make a date with me. I posted a report on him on a provider site that he found out about and now he's threatening to tell my family and friends all sorts of crap.

I sent him another email asking him to stop and saying I was gonna call the cops. Then he responded pretty much I dare you!

What should I do? Should I call the cops? I have all his text messages and emails with all the different names and I know a lot about who he is and where he works and stuff. I don't want to do this, but I don't think he's gonna back off.

Please any advise would be great.

You have proof, and also
where I live, he could also
be charged with electronic
communication harassment.

And I  don't think the police
are going to ask what you do
for a living, and even if they
know, they are still obligated
to help you.

And one more good reason !!!
You have to get the jump on
him before he does anything..!!
So you need an on going case before
it gets worse for you, do you
understand what I mean????

If you drop it and let it go, it
just validates to him what he
is trying to do, and maybe he
will do it to someone else, or
has already, but either way he
needs a charge on his record....

Get a restraining order. You can also press for extortion but that could cause bad press for you. A restraining order should be enough to get him to rethink.

Sounds like a crazy person. Firstly tell your friends and family about a crazy stalker one nite stand you had. Or ex boyfriend or whatever. They should believe you over a crazy stranger or they arent friends.

As far as getting him to go away, once i had warned my family i would ignore him. If that doesnt work hint but dont outright say that you are connected and thus protected. Who cares if you lie and say mob backing, or giant ganster pimp protection, or hell even that you recently turned stooly for LE. Choose whichever seems scariest to you. Even if you have to say the protection is new to you because he wont stop scaring you. Good luck.

And his buddies , some who are on here too, all work for  one of the security contractors like black water. That dude and one other from the same team think you're great so you have additional options because those boys don't play and they have numerous resources at hand to make a loser like that realize it isnt worth it and he'll most likely just go away.

Be safe , this prick ruined it for all of us here in hot town.

Thanks for all the great messages and advice and support. It really makes me feel good to know that some people have my back. This has been going on for a bit, and I finally posted about it cuz it wouldn't stop.

I haven't done anything yet, and haven't decided which way I'm gonna go. I took down my ads and my profile and stuff, cuz I feel kinda weird having that out there.

Luckily I have met some really, really great guys since I started doing this, and they are really helping me though this.

Hopefully I will be back soon. I really do love what I do, and I don't want to stop.

Just my personal experience:  If I kept emailing saying "leave me alone", he kept writing back.  If I resisted the urge to write and ignored him, eventually he gave up.  If he shows up at your home, don't open the door, call 911!  I also use the blacklist sites to report a stalker (also to screen if he doesn't have lots of reveiws or oks on reputable sites.  You might also remind him that you know his address and family (easy enough to find).