Hi
I'm brand new at this and have a question.  I'm going to Las Vegas w/ my girlfriend for a vacation and we want to hang with a provider that caters to couples. The providers that we are looking into all check references, which is a good thing, However, we ( GF and I) both work in a LE "type" agency  (not cops, but similar) in the Northeast.  We are going on vacation and looking to have relax and have fun.  We feel that what we do in the privacy of our home or on vacation is nobodys business but ours. Will a provider turn us down based on our jobs? If the provider called our job to check our  references, would they be discreet?  They would be calling  a HR dept of a State agency. How can we assure the provider that we are ok?  It is a risk for us, too.  If WE got busted our careers would be over.  We only operate in our state and with the type of LE job we have, we don't have powers of arrest (at least not out of state).  We go away to forget what we do and have fun.
Can anyone offer any advice?