been the subject of an arrest, or at least it would be very rare if for no other reason than the logisitical problems that would come from trying to set up a case.

On the other hand, if it is a "sex for money" arrangement, it does fall under most prostitution statues.

still not a lawyer

depend on the age of the "sugarbaby."

...exchange for sex.  Hiring a sugarbaby involves more extensive negotiations: how many times you can see her monthly, dinners, movies, vacations, etc.

LE is more interested in catching the low hanging fruit of hobbyists and providers who mention money for sex.  Sugardaddies are usually more wealthy and can hire the best lawyers.  LE doesn't want that headache.

That said, did this woman contact you out of the blue or have you seen her as a provider?  How does she know you can afford to be a sugardaddy?  If you have never met her, I wouldn't have anything to do with her.

escorting, and completely legal. You CANNOT get arrested for being a sugarbaby.

It doesn't matter what terms you use, or do not use. If you fork over the cash (or anything else of value), you are toast.