Stood up twice in one night, don't waste your time.

First off I would like to preface this post with the fact that I have never been stood up.  Not bad, I suppose, for as long as I've been hobbying.  Some of you will say "that's what you get for using CL."  Both these girls were cross referenced with TER and both had decent reviews, I'm no beginner at this.  The first girl I contacted was "Honey of San Diego"  she was apprehensive and wanted me to send a picture of myself.  I declined and told her that if I did not meet her screening requirements that was cool and I'll be on my way.  She said she would meet and we made an appt. for an hour later.  I drove clear across town and showed up on time.  She would not answer her phone and her mailbox was full.  I proceeded to drive back toward my side of the world and gave "Nessa" a call.  She answered and we set up an appt. for about 20 mins. later.  I again showed up on time and called, she told me that she needed another 30 mins.  I agreed and went and blew $20 on video poker then called her after 30 mins.  She informed me that it was not going to work out, something that could have been brought to my attention $20 and 30 mins. earlier.  Don't waste your time with either of these girls.