Scorpiobill I identify with you 100%, and in part because of that I have submitted no reviews.  I make my selections cautiously based on the reviews of others and how long the provider has been in business (like many other decisions).  Because of this, 95% of the time I have a wonderful experience.  Therefore there is nothing I can add or contribute to a review that hasn't been said dozens of times before, so why be redundant?  On the rare few occasions where the experience was below average, I kept it to myself and merely elected to not see the provider again.  If the provider has an impeccable reputation and I somehow have a lousy time, then I have to be fair and accept that perhaps it was me that screwed up the karma.  Maybe I was in a bad mood or had a chip on my shoulder during our meeting that I thought was successfully being repressed... but due to her expertise in socializing with people in intimate situations, she could see right through it.  Maybe I was freshly showered and lightly misted with expensive cologne, yet too much Vitamin B gave me a foul odor of which I wasn't aware.  Maybe she had the worst day of her life before seeing me and did a great job under the circumstances.  Who knows.  There is one common denominator of every bad relationship I've ever been in - Me.  Unless there was a ripoff or deceit involved, I'm not going to rake a provider over the coals.  Perhaps that provides a disservice to the hobbyists who's reviews I use to make a decision the first time I see a new girl; but if the providers could set aside their professionalism and judge us as honestly and negatively as some would like to judge them... we'd be in some serious sh*t.