great article about Ashley Madison - but this passage is my fav ....  even though i am blessed to not have this lacking at home.    
   
 For men, it's often a sexual void - their partner isn't sleeping with them. They might think, "All I get is vanilla sex." They don't want vanilla - they want to try different flavors. Someone of different ethnicity. Age. Body type. Sexual appetite. The big thing, and this came out of a study by one university - oral sex. If your partner desires more activity in the oral sex department and you're not willing to participate, that is a big indicator that an affair might happen. The joke around here - maybe we should've named the site Oral Madison! Clearly there is an oral sex void in America.