First and foremost, by the fact that I use this site to select various types of providers, the services rendered were part of their repertoire. Many of the things you listed....WERE ENCOURAGED BY THE PROVIDER!!!! They enjoyed it, and in many cases, I saw them again on more than one occasion. And yes, if someone advertises as a major Greek provider and doesn't provide that service, its disappointing if that is what you are interested in.
I purposely asked for OPINIONS, on this matter, not a rallying point of who was right nor wrong. Again, my point was if my perspective was missing a point of view, then let me know. I spoke of a "provider in Vegas". You chose to reveal yourself. You then pull snipets from reviews and present them as facts as though I am hurting, mistreating, or abusing people. That is so far from the truth!
Again, you can refuse service to anyone for any reason.
-- Modified on 5/29/2007 6:04:46 AM
I'm new to the TER discussion boards and like any new community member before throwing my .02 in I wanted to take the time to read the posting styles and topic choices that are common before going beyond my inital introduction posting to avoid stepping on any toes or breaking any TER Rules.
Being the intelligent girl that I am, I quickly realized after reading the post below by "Scrotum McBallBuster" that his complaint was in response to my email turning down his appointment request. So I guess my 1st post will be in defense of myself, and while I appreciate the posters discretion in not posting my name I have no issues revealing myself to defend/explain further…
First of all I see a very select number of clients at the most 3-4 a week so I am extremely selective about whom I choose to see. Obviously safety is important to all of us girls, but there is only so much you can learn from someone's employment info and even if they offer references it can be hard to get in contact with those girls or to know if they actually even remember the guy or what kind of session he is seeking.
This is where I find reviews can fill in the gaps, so as part of my screening process I will read 5-10 reviews that the client has written to see if he is seeking the type of session that I offer/enjoy. I feel this whole hobby is about escapism and each experience can offer something different but you can still get an overall idea about a potential client's desires by reading what they've written. Say 2 clients both request a 1hr GFE date- one is a Teacher and the other is Corporate VP; looking only at their professions you might think that the VP wants to take charge for a high energy session and the Teacher has a more subdued session in mind. But upon reading the reviews each has posted I may find that behind closed doors it's the Teacher who's really kinky and the VP is someone really shy who needs me to take charge of the session. Depending on the type of session I'm in the mood for that week would determine which client I would choose to see.
From a psychological standpoint I find reviews extremely revealing not only because they reveal the author's "hobby persona" but also shows their attitudes and expectations from the providers they have seen. Again I will respect the privacy of Scrotum McBallBuster by simply a few selected highlights providing snippets of the reviews he has written, but I think it is quite clear as to my reasoning behind not seeing him.
As I laid on my back, she gave an incredible bbbj. I got aggressive and held her head as she gagged a tad bit on my dick. LOVIN IT!!!!
I was smackin that pretty booty while giving her all I had. She was moaning and talking nasty. Very cool. I grabbed her hair while banging it hard. I needed to hit that ass.
I pumped hard and she vigorously started rubbing her pussy. I was talking shit about how my dick was gonna make her cum while in her ass and low and behold, she did cum!
was grabbing her head and making her choke on my dick and she loved it. Spanking
Then, I grabbed her head from behind while she was sitting on the bed and started to throat fuck her.
She knew I wanted Greek and the site from doggie was too much to take. But alas, she said I was too big. (sigh) That was a major disappointment.
I'm not sure the rules regarding posting of the content of VIP reviews, but if you can't view the Review snippets posted above I will summarize what I read in this persons reviews:
Calls himself "aggressive" and mentions taking pleasure in holding down a providers heads to intentionally gag them in more than a few reviews. Discussing "smacking booty" while pulling hair and talking nasty, and various mentions of aggressive pounding. Again none of this makes him bad guy and obviously other less selective girls either haven't read the reviews or just don't care; but personally that's not the type of session I would enjoy or offer so I politely declined.
I could have easily lied and said I was busy or not have answered his request at all, but I stand by my decision and I wish nothing but the best of luck to Scrotum McBallBuster in his search for someone more fitting to his persona. And hopefully those of you who have wanted to know more about me can get an idea from this post!
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Very well said! Concise and to the point.
Having been in this business for awhile I guessed his reviews would read something like that and for the record I would not have seen him either! Always go with your gut instinct!
Welcome to Vegas! 
Ditto to what Sara says! Your post is very well stated and thought out Carly.
I was impressed with your research and attention to detail as well. I bet your one out of about 500 (maybe a whole lot more)that would do take the time to do this and that is to your strong credit.
I just got back from Vegas but wished I had seen your ad before I visited. I would love to meet you. Women that use their minds are very sexually stimulating! Maybe next time --lol
Oh BTW, the advise you get here can be very helpful and hope you dont hesitate to ask questions. There are several very knowledgeable people who will be too glad to help.
Best wishes to you Carly!
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I agree with you 100%. Plus, you are a knock out!!!
Very articulate and well-stated. I can see your points 100%, and applaud your honesty.
Now, please take a look at a few of my reviews and see if you think we'll click LOL! Looking forward to meeting you!
I applaud you for standing up for yourself, and also for having the class not to "out" the person who you did not choose to see. I do wish you would re-consider your stance on not meeting with locals, as we also understand the need for discretion and privacy, but I respect your choice. If you ever change your mind about us locals, please know that I would love to meet you. Either way, be safe, and be well.
B.
Thanks for sharing insight into how a provider decides whether to say yes or no.
--b.
Damn, if I was this guy I think I'd stop giving out my handle when requesting appointments.
I've always wondered what percentage of providers take a few minutes to read a few of a guy's reviews before meeting with him. I would think they all would. It seems like a simple enough thing to do. I'm still clueless as to what percentage do, but at least I know one does. Good research job Carly.
Sweetheart, if you've been paying attention at all, you'd realize these reviews are about the guys. Notice the focus generally on the "I" pronoun, rather than the "she" or "we" pronouns. So, unless the guy is really abusive, and while I'm seeing a pretty healthy ego here, because I'm sure we would have heard from the provider in question if there was an issue with the guy, I don't see what's the deal in posting his reviews*.
Speaking of ego, I remember your "locals need not apply" opening statement a few weeks ago. As if I might run into to you and maybe a) your personal trainer, b) your manager, c) your husband (pick one) somewhere in deepest Henderson and would have to feign your invisibility. Well, at least the good news is that you won't be playing that discount for good reviews game some of the guys love to play. Oh I forgot, those guys aren't really local either...could have fooled me!
In my experience, the girls know how to handle this sort of client, or for that matter, 99% of them. For example, my neighbour LJ would just beat the shit out of him. The White Knights show their inexperience by forgetting this.
*anal clients are in a category all their own, and this should be acknowledged. Their deal, in my experience is about total dominion and ownership, and quite frankly, are wired differently from GFE/PSE clients. This guy seems like he may fit there.
First and foremost, by the fact that I use this site to select various types of providers, the services rendered were part of their repertoire. Many of the things you listed....WERE ENCOURAGED BY THE PROVIDER!!!! They enjoyed it, and in many cases, I saw them again on more than one occasion. And yes, if someone advertises as a major Greek provider and doesn't provide that service, its disappointing if that is what you are interested in.
I purposely asked for OPINIONS, on this matter, not a rallying point of who was right nor wrong. Again, my point was if my perspective was missing a point of view, then let me know. I spoke of a "provider in Vegas". You chose to reveal yourself. You then pull snipets from reviews and present them as facts as though I am hurting, mistreating, or abusing people. That is so far from the truth!
Again, you can refuse service to anyone for any reason.
-- Modified on 5/29/2007 6:04:46 AM
Here, here! Bravo for taking a stand and sticking to it! We are not here to be bruised, have our hair pulled out, or be choked by clients, and we have a right to enjoy our job just as he has the right to enjoy us but NOT abuse us. BTW, I am a new provider (TER approval pending,) and this site has been a BIBLE for me. All hail TER.