it needs to take place within the time frame of our date(s). That is in large part what longer dates are for. I spend a great deal of time and thought on my email responses, and if I start feeling like I'm spending more time reading and responding to a particular gentleman's than the entire planned duration of the date, then I am going to start feeling taken advantage of (and not in any fun and sexy ways . Those sorts of sour feelings are never a positive foundation to creating an enjoyable encounter.

It would be more interesting if you were serious.

On why the questions are being asked, who is asking them, how long the session is, and what the questions are.

Whenever we see hobbyist out of control and flipping out.....as in stalking behavior.....it is generally because the lines have been crossed and someone did a wee bit too much talking about their personal lives.

I prefer to keep my personal life PERSONAL.