Question for the ladies and gents here.  Was with a very well reviewed lady earlier this week for an extended dinner date.   We decided to have dinner before adjourning to the room to enjoy dessert.  We had a wonderful dinner and eventually made our way to the room, where the lady promptly fell asleep after entering the room.  My guess, she had a bit too much wine at dinner.  Anyway, she woke up in the morning and left without much explanation, I had already given her her donation.  My wuestion is since I am feeling less than satisfied with the date, what is the etiquette?  Should I even discuss the matter with her or just chalk it up to a bad night and move on?  I know I could write a review, but since this appears to be aone time occurance for her and her previous reviews are stellar, I don't want to hurt her reputation.  Any input would be appreciated.

So you are saying she fell asleep and nothing other than actually eating dinner occurred?  I bet THAT dinner was expensive!  If she has great reviews, my guess is she plans to make it right with you but had other plans that day.  Just ask her if she feels the date was up to both parties expectations.  If after that you feel slighted, then post an honest review if you feel so inclined, but my suggestion is give her a chance to make it right...chances are she will.

Good luck!

that would have woke her ass up

I've heard this story many times often during convention weeks and especially CES.  

What do you expect from someone who has been fucking multiple guys around the clock during CES?  During busy conventions they often start early in the morning and continue nonstop until the next morning seeing individuals and participating in large parties usually with numerous guys and  alcohol at every stop.

And why do you think this is a "one time occurrance?"  I hate to disappoint you but TER reviews account for less than 10% of the business for most of the providers. My guess is that this is not the first time.

And what's the point of bringing it up if you're not going to identify her for others to avoid?

What bothers me about this situation is when you say "she woke up in the morning and left without much explanation."  If she intended to make it up to you, then arrangements should have been discussed right then.  If she makes it up to you after the review posts, you can right another review of her about the make up session, and that will replace the first review.  And don't let her get away with saying "what's the problem, you got an overnight for only the dinner date rate!"

This is really simple. If your story is true, she acted extremely unprofessionally. The purpose of this site isn't just to write each other Penthouse Letters that we can jack off to and that ladies can use to promote their business. It's to let people know about these stories. Tell the truth and let the chips fall where they may.

I'd suggest you contact her privately to see if this can be resolved to your satisfaction first, with a very limited time offer, since once you take this public, it's less likely to be resolved in a way where you get services rendered that you paid for; it increases the odds of a he said/she said scenario (seen this happen too many times on the boards). But if the clock runs out on your offer... take it public. Name names here. Review her (keep in mind mentions of substance/alcohol impairment are NOT allowed in reviews- I had something similar happen and found this out myself, though I was able to mention things on the board).

Anyways, that's my advice. I hope that things get taken care of to your satisfaction, and if not, you at least let people know who might not be the best choice for a dinner date.

Been there done that...and these broads dont think they owe you, what you originally paid for in the first place.

Write a damn review... save the next poor bastard the same pain. Is this not what TER is all about ??

Correct me if im wrong ??

Huh ???????? For real ????
Let me see if I got your story straight - You had a very well reviewed provider , you went to dinner , you got back to the room , she fell asleep .
She woke up in the morning and just left with out saying anything .

That is YOUR side of the story.Then there is HER side of the story. Then there is the TRUTH

Ok, so let's hypothetically say your side of the story is true. and that is EXACTLY what happened.  

Someone advised you should - "get the play out of the way first"...........ummmmmmmmm sorry  NO.
If I have a dinner date we are going first to dinner then back to the room for dessert .
Why ? because I took the time to get all dolled up for dinner.
when I play , I get all messy from head to toe .
Now to go out to dinner I will need not just to shower , but fix my make up and hair ..........
Do you want to spend 90 minutes of YOUR TIME waiting on me to get all dolled up again ??? ........ Yeah I didn't think so
 
Plus the whole idea of  a "dinner date" is that time you spend together at dinner getting to know each other , flirting , laughing......
that is what creates a special connection for "dessert in the bedroom".
Also build up during dinner adds an extra spark *wink wink*

and yes donations are to be paid upfront.

My question to you is -  why didn't you say something to the very well reviewed provider in the morning ? Did she sneak out while you were sleeping ??
It's just something seems not exactly true in your story.
I mean if I was a man , and had a provider about to leave with out providing to me I would say something like -
Hey sweet cheeks , I enjoyed dinner with you , but what happened to my dessert ?
we can do dessert now , or you may refund me for the none providing part of our evening.

SO I am still not understanding how you let her leave , with out saying anything to her.

Now with that said, you need to understand - "very well reviewed provider" doesn't always equal  "Professional Provider"
I know it should , but it doesn't.......Why ?? because guys don't write reviews about it.

Busy CES or not , a true professional lady shouldn't book more appointments then she can handle.
It isn't your business how many appointments she is booking .
BUT , if she is truly professional, she should make sure she is fresh and full of energy for every client she sees.
and if she isn't feeling up to bringing her A game, better to cancel then take someone's money just to fall asleep.
Although , each lady should know what her limits are , and act accordantly .

For an example as a true professional provider if I am having a 6-8 hour date with a client ,
I am not going to book another appointment for after that.
If I have been up all day and then have a midnight appointment , I am not going to commit to meet someone at 9:00 am the next day.
BTW This also goes for another thread I saw a few days ago , about a client getting "flaked" on because the provider "fell asleep" ............
WTF ?? how does one "fall asleep" unless the appointment was set for 2-3 am.........but even then A RELIABLE PROFESSIONAL PROVIDER  would not "fall sleep"

So ok now that we have learned that VERY WELL REVIEWED doesn't always mean RELIABLE AND PROFESSIONAL.
What next ?

To the lady I will say - We are human , we make mistakes ( although we try our best not to   and no one is perfect.
Cool, but if you are truly professional, you should have realized your mistake in the morning .
You should have handled the situation in a professional way right then and there.
NOW this is of course IF his side of the story is exactly what happened.
I still have a feeling that maybe something is missing from the story

To another point made in this thread -   A true professional lady should know to make it up to the client or resolve the issue BEFORE he writes a review or BEFORE he brings it to the boards.
cause after is just - Oops , I got caught and now I have to make things right so I don't ruin my reputation.
Sorry a TRUE professional that makes a mistake should know to make things right ASAP..........
not because now she got a bad review .OR because now it became a topic of discussion on the boards.

I am sorry if I sound harsh or strict, but I take my profession very seriously.
Just cause I am a "Ho" , doesn't mean I can't have class  and be professional
and there is no excuse for being soooooooo unprofessional.

As in ANY type of business . No matter if it is the business of services or goods .
When one doesn't receive what they paid for,that is theft ......unless UPS lost the package LOL LOL
and I am sure any lady who is RELIABLE  and a TRUE professional would agree with me.
I am a Hooker , not a Thief

This does piss me off , because things like this ruin it for the TRUE professionals like myself.

So now that there has been all this drama on the board , I am sure you have been contacted by the lady to "make it right"
but if not , then you should write a review asap.
If she is so worried about her reputation she should have known better then to do what she did.

It's when guys don't write about it , that's when they think they can behave so unprofessionally and get away with it ........
well that is why they do get away with it.
No one wants to be "the bad guy" that writes the one bad review .
AND this is why YOU THINK - "this appears to be a one time occurance for her and her previous reviews are stellar,"

IF it was HER first time occurrence , this would have been settled in the morning before she left OR before your story hit the boards.

Do YOU get that ????????????????

SO again this is all hypothetically if YOUR story is exactly what happened.

Well now the ball is in your court

BTW, any updates on your story ? *wink wink*

Keep us posted , cause when you start something we all like to know how it ends
xoxo From a True Professional CindySpice

 

I would like to thank everyone for their honest advuce.  It is appreciated.  I did take the advice and contacted the lady.  We had a lengthy and good conversation of the events, or lack there of, on our date.  She expained that she is not a big dinker and thinks the number of drinks we had before and during dinner hit her pretty hard later in the evening.  Her recollection of the evening was quite sketchy.  She was very apologetic and offered to make it up to me on our next date. I will say her offer ws quit generous and I have agrred to give her the opportunity to make things right.  We have alrady set our next date and I'm hoping she comes through.  If she flakes, then I'll go ahead and write the review of the first date.  Thank you all again for your feedback.