I'm kinda surprised to read all of these reviews where everyone's getting bbbj's and giving DATY.  Anyone worried about catching anything?  I'm by no means a hypocondriac, but isn't anyone worried about getting something like herpies?

I have had sooooo many offers ($$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$) for bbbj and daty. I can not believe that some providers offer these things in this day and age. But... they do. Their health must not be very important to them. And if they do it for one... they do it for all. My question is... why would a man want to follow behind God knows how many other men (and women these days) before him... unprotected? If someone could answer my question I would greatly appreciate it.

Check the Center for Disease Control web site and decide for yourself:

http://www.cdc.gov

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What I cannot believe is any provider who actually believes a guy will be happy receiving a "covered" bj/ It's gotten to the point where I research carefully the reviews of the girls I see, and if they don't offer bbbj, I don't see them.  I'm not always into DATY but once in a while, I like to, it all depends on my mood at the time, but I have no qualms about doing that.
Is it dangerous? Sure to some degree, but so is any kind of sex.  It's also dangerous to get into your car; I just witnessed a horrible accidenton the way home today, where the people surely thought they were just going out to do whatever their plans were, but sadly are either dead or mangled at this hour.  Is it dangerous to fly? Of course it is but we still get onto planes with 200 strangers, of whom any of them could be a crazy lunatic...I know it's only a matter of time before I'm on the flight with the nutcase that starts jumping up and down and threatening the crew and passengers.
When I was more socially outgoing, I used to bar-hop/go clubbing and would if I was lucky try to get lucky with a girl...99.9999% of those sexual encounters not only had bbbj's and daty, all the sex was uncovered...when you're drunk and partying you do many more dangerous things than you do in this "hobby"/biz. 99/9999% of providers require condom use during intercourse (yes I have heard of those who don't and even met one recently) so your chances are so low of contracting anything, they're nil for all intents and purposes.
My point (finally!) - is it dangerous? Yes, but so isn't a lot of things we do everyday - you weigh the odds - jumping off a 50 foot building is dangerous so you don't do it.  Jumping out of an airplane from 14000 feet is dangerous but you do it since you have a parachute and have weighed the odds, and you realize that although something could go horribly wrong, it likely won't.
I've been with more providers than I can remember over the last 7 years, and I can safely say all but 1 of them were clean, hygenic, and fun, and I'm tired of people asking these ridiculous health questions.
john69 in Atlanta

I can't understand why if some providers don't do BBBJ but allow DATY. What's the difference? Are they taking the same risks?

I've had the same wonder many times.  Last December while in Vegas CindySpice and I talked about the above.  I can't recall all of what she said, but the bottom line is DATY is safer then BBJ's. I've never had covered DATY and don't think I would partake of it it that was the choice.

To make the broad statement that DATY is safer then BBBJ is ridiculous!

Im not suggesting a BODY condom LOL but there ARE certain areas that should ALWAYS be protected/Yes we can get hit by a car etc etc and yes life has chances everyday of dissaster but why be unsanitary and cause more disease in this world There is also nothing wrong with anyone asking questions on this subject.the only stupid question there is : the one that was never asked right?!Anyone new to the hobby certainly shouldnt feel like they cant ask...why condem them for wanting to learn.?...Be smart about this hobby or you may have some regrets.As far as DATY being safer that BBBJ-No way /im going to disagree.Any providers or hobbyists that choose to be unsafe will just have to stick with their own kind....We all make our own choices.My .02 cents..

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