......and I don't understand. Whenever the question is posed, as in the post below asking the question " Love to engage in endless Daty and Dato " why is it there is never a bevy of ladies responding ?
In the past I have posted the very same question and got very little response. As a matter of fact one of the ladies that I selected based on her enthusiastic response ended up telling me in person once we actually got together that Daty doesn't really do much for her. Whaaaaat ? Maybe it's me, could I be the worst orally insatiable male on the planet, maybe I actually suck at it. Over the years I've been with fifty four different women and in that time period I've had but two who seemed to really be into my particular oral fetish. One of those ladies I woke up next to who asked me, then began begging me to please eat her pussy. The other was a recent threesome that allowed me to devour both of them for what seemed like an entire hour. It causes a state of Heavenly Bliss for me. In closing I simply want to say that if I were a lady in this lifestyle and noticed a gent looking for a date who is genuinely into receiving endless Daty and Dato I'd be jumping at the chance to lay back relax for an hour or so and allow an eager guy to eat me to his hearts content. What do I not understand ladies..... Please helpI wholeheartedly agree obviously, LOL. I have had a few ladies tell me that it's the best oral they have ever gotten, but finding that needle in a haystack that absolutely loves receiving it for an extended period of time is difficult.
And thanks for trying to encourage the women to write me back.
I can see no pleasure from the session. What are we paying for? To lick and be licked back. Some women seem to purposely avoid smashing their pussy into your face. I do like it when I can tell if a woman has had enough. If you are down there for over thirty minutes you start to wonder what the hell am I doing wrong. The usual response I get though is I am just mellowing out and enjoying myself.
not thinking that the appointment sounded wonderful. I would love to have my pussy worshiped for an hour.
But, he said he needed incall. He said he had a $250 budget. He is a very low-scorer when it comes to reviews. These are 3 reasons that I would not respond to him.
Someone else making this same request without the financial limitation and the poor opinion of the ladies he has met would get lots of responses.
You are correct as I had a budget of 250 and needed incall. May I ask how I am a "very low-scorer" on reviews though? I give mostly 7's and 8's. I don't necessarily see that as a very low score. The couple of times I gave a 6 it was a fair number based on looks or performance. They are not 9s and 10s like you have on your reviews. I'm not one to just give a 9 or 10 for the sake of giving a high number. That isn't really helpful nor what this site is designed to do, provide accurate reviews. Or, is there a score that ladies give the gentleman that they see that isn't public on TER? And please don't think I'm trying to pick an argument, I am in no way trying to do that, I'm just trying to understand. Thanks and have a great weekend.
When I glance at your list of reviews I do not see that you have many stellar experiences and maybe a few average to below average. I see consistently unfavorable scores. My first impression is that either you choose very poorly or your standards are higher than your budget. If I were considering replying to your post or seeing you I would have gone another step and compared how you rated each lady compared to her average. For instance If the ladies mostly get 9 & 10 and you are scoring 7 & 8 then I would say you scored the girls below average. If the ladies usually get 6s and 7s and you are scoring a 7 or 8 then I would think that you are scoring them above average.
I do not believe that myself or the other ladies are numbers. I feel that the scores given are much more reflective of the reviewer and what type of person he is. If he loves women, finds beauty before flaws, is optimistic about an amazing experience, and is a fun person to be around then his view of the date will be positive and his scores will reflect that. Sure, occasionally you may need to give a low score because the lady was not as advertised or she did not deliver as promised. In this case I would see mostly 9s and maybe one or two 6 or 7. In your case I see mostly 7s. This makes me wonder, "Why are you seeing so many 7s when there are so many women who could be a 10 in your eyes available?" Did every one of the ladies you had a date with disappoint you and not live up to what you expected? I personally see this as a reflection on you. You have been hobbying long enough to figure out how to pick ladies who you think are 10s.
I am certainly not trying to start a fight. You asked and I answered. Personally if I had a low budget I would be so grateful to the people who kept their prices inside my means that it would bump the score up just to say thank you and encourage them to stay in business.
I used the post below and his mention of the importance in finding a lady into "Daty and Dato" and that thought only.
I too have always searched for such a lady. If I found/find her she would/will be my ATF and my every opportunity go-to girl.
I simply thought that this search would have been easier.
Heather, I consider myself to be one of the good guys, respectful, generous and pretty darn good when it comes to worshipping a woman's body so why is my list of accomplishments not filled with women who love to lay back, relax and let someone else do the driving for an hour or two ?
You did however make me a believer Heather so it's long overdue that we get together on my next visit to Vegas
If you were to ask "who can accommodate an oral fetish" that might work but using terms like DATY and DATO is on the cusp of "illegal activities"... Sometimes it's wording, other times ladies don't respond out of concern that it will be haggled for an "oral only" rate or something or who knows. For me though I don't usually respond to ISO posts that have sexual terms or blatant sex acts and rate budget listed.
I can appreciate that, and thank you for giving me some insight for future searches. May I ask one question though. As I am semi-well reviewed on TER and have a couple of white-list referrals, would that not make me less on a "LE" concern? I'm all for safety and don't begrudge anyone from practicing caution. TIA
unfortunately situations can still go south in different ways. Discretion will never lose.
Say you got busted with an escort.
They offer you a deal... But the deal is that they get control of your account for lower charges.
Consider that - and from the other side if a provider account was compromised... less likely as that could be "entrapment" however there are many ways LE will try to get around the laws upholding the laws.
The bottom line is I don't discuss rates/services simply because accounts can be compromised, shared or some day possibly hacked. Screening is still a must and I always have my friends confirm and agree certain things before a meeting to verify time is money not sex or sex acts.
All good advice. Point taken for future reference.
I do not see how DATY can be considered to be on the CUSP of illegal sexual activity. DATO is getting a bit on the forbidden side, or let's just say it is pretty kinky. However, this is all between consenting adults. When I read the story about TER on Wikipedia, the article did state that providers felt that law enforcement monitors these boards in some capacity. However, they probably watch the BP and Craig's for trafficking more than anything.
I like the format of some other boards where the woman lists her likes, her dislikes, and things she fantasizes about. Although I did not mention any price ranges to a couple of women I have recently corresponded with through PMs on this board and another board, the discussion turned very explicit and neither woman I corresponded with seemed to mind. Both are looking forward to meeting me, and I do have to travel to see both. One was surprised I would travel to see her, but I explained that people go all over the world for sex and this is just a little 2 hour flight to see someone who has a very explicit menu that we spent some time discussing. The other woman is in England, so I would have to make that a vacation and pleasure all wrapped into one. She was on a bucket list thread and I asked her what was on her bucket list and she said to find that out you have to date me. That did not stop me from mentioning something on my bucket list that I felt uncomfortable discussing since I had never met this person before. She gave no reaction other than you better make your reservations honey.
I know this is a chosen profession for providers, but if I was a provider before I cut loose on someone and let them have their way with me, I would sure want to know what the guy looks like. I can understand some reservation about how wild you want to be until you see who you are dealing with. What if the guy is big, fat, smelly, and ugly?
aisle!!
oink oink
...... but you were a Bacon Hog !!!
I'll say it!
I LOVE having my clit orally teased!
I LOVE having my pussy tongue fucked!
I LOVE having my body shudder during intense orgasms, from oral sex!
I LOVE seeing my pussy juice all over my lover's face!
I LOVE passionately kissing my lover, and sensually licking my pussy juice off of his or her lips!
I LOVE having the rim of my 'Naughty Place' licked (as long as my lover doesn't lick my pussy afterwards, and risk giving me a bacterial infection)!
I do NOT LOVE, having my lover ram his or her fingers in and out of my pussy or 'Naughty Place'...Owee!
(FYI: I'm redesigning my website, and as soon as it's completed, I will update the link on my TER profile.)
Robbin
xox
Yum. ![]()
With nines and tens filling your profile I'm anxious to see the new website and the lady behind the curtain
I'm in the process of redesigning my escort website, but if you'd like, you may view my XXX personal site, which has now been added to my TER profile.
Robbin
xoxo
YUMMMM............do you see couples?????? LOL but seriously????
I LOVE having my clit orally teased!
I LOVE having my pussy tongue fucked!
I LOVE having my body shudder during intense orgasms, from oral sex!
I LOVE seeing my pussy juice all over my lover's face!
I LOVE passionately kissing my lover, and sensually licking my pussy juice off of his or her lips!
I LOVE having the rim of my 'Naughty Place' licked (as long as my lover doesn't lick my pussy afterwards, and risk giving me a bacterial infection)!
I do NOT LOVE, having my lover ram his or her fingers in and out of my pussy or 'Naughty Place'...Owee!
(FYI: I'm redesigning my website, and as soon as it's completed, I will update the link on my TER profile.)
Robbin
xoxo
I'm in the process of redesigning my escort website, but if you'd like, you may view my XXX personal site, which has now been added to my TER profile.
Robbin
xox
yes I do to love it to and I hope I doing it right!!! and you are right everyone is different on both sides of the fence I think turn about i fair play!!! but the thing about the reviews, whites list, okays, is that all part of the screening I know Le can and is out there I have been PM bout someone I have reviewed and I check to see if he has any before I answer any questions and it seems sit has come up before the lades don't check much I am I wrong?