Maybe this is just a coincidence, but after a few years in this hobby I have had back-to-back stand-ups from providers. They both verified me, and then both didn't show up even after multiple confirmations. Just very strange.
I have never stood someone up in my on and off 6 years of this. I have had to cancel day of maybe a handful of times. Once due to snow. A couple of times being sick where we came to a fix that suited us both. Once a family emergency and the guy was a total jerk about it so..
You do take chances, but.. I don't see how a ncns standup is even possible.
I guess some ladies haven't had a job where if they just didn't show up they could be fired.
We could all use a little help with communication some days.
I always confirm with the gentleman the night before and on the day of our date! I would never just NCNS! But it has happened to me once- I told the guy I was on my way to his hotel. He said ok..and then once I got there he ignored all my texts and calls! I understand things come up, but to just NCNS is so inconsiderate!! Being on time and communicating is very important to me! The gentlemans time is just as valuable as mine!! Hopefully you have better luck from now on and no more Stand-ups!!
I have heard this happening from gents and the providers who stood them up are highly reviewed TER providers.So unfortunately with some providers this does happen. In this day of technology it is rude to not call,text,email,etc if things happen and that goes for both sides the gents as well as the providers. Some people unfortunately could care less about wasting another person's time. I am sorry you were ncns two times.It is strange especially if there was multiple confirmations. Better luck next time
If it's the later then yes it has happened to me quite frequently (maybe 1 in 4). It's usually canceled 1 to 2 days before the appointment date. If you want to be sure to have a good time then you should a backup plan (such as get pre-screened by an agency or an indie who is willing to take last minute appointment).
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