She's tried to hold me down and use them on me but I am just too sensitive!  

I bet she could give you lots of great suggestions!

Lelo Mia-2 my favorite...

I love the lelo toy I have quite a few of them but here is one of my favorites

I have the amazing incomparable SYBIAN fuck device
As seen on Howard Stern and other fetish videos

 
My magic wand is literally magic

I also have toys for boys heehee
And double toys for duos!

As for the provider, I would pay admission to watch her get off on a Sybian and may want to play with her while she's on it. As for me, many many years ago a civilian gal placed a massager on the back of her hand (haven't see one since) and massaged some sensitive spots (wink) on me. It strapped onto the fingers and positioned on the back of the hand. It vibrated like crazy.