I was in Vegas for business and had made arrangements for an outcall to my room. Days before we were emailing and we finally spoke. One of the first things she told me, after I asked how she was...being nice and all, was that she was broke as business has been very slow. Ok I thought....I didn't need to hear that. When I finally get to Vegas she calls me to try and figure out a time. On the phone she tells me she might be able to see me that afternoon IF she can find CHILD CARE! WTF? Why would she tell me that?? My warning bells are going off. She calls back and says she can't find any care for "child's name"....OMG! Why did you just tell me you are having child care issues AND your kid's name?!?!?

I kinda think I'm not gonna see her so I contact someone else for that night and THAT did NOT go well. Got bait and switch and upsell. Got screwed over and not in the good way. So, I text the original telling her this and saying I'm not sure any more because of my bad experience. She replies back saying I could pay her afterwards. That just made her seem even more desperate. That combined with the TMI about her kid made me call it off.

Sigh....it wasn't a great trip to Vegas for me.

WTH would a provider tell all that stuff to someone she doesn't know...a perspective client??!?!

It's your own fault, you need to do some homework, read reviews. and figure it out from there. There are way too many great providers in Vegas to have to put up with that crap. I have done this for a while seen about a dozen ladies in Vegas and my worst rating I gave anyone was an 8.  Just do the research.

. . . offered her childcare for a discount.

Why do you think TER has reviews ?

Hopefully lesson learned.

Discloser - the below answer is MY opinion .......although I am known for getting a lot of
"very well said"   "great post"   "couldn't agree more"

Should a provider tell you that she is broke and that business is slow  ??? NO she shouldn't !!!!
Your looking to book someone for fun , not someone who is going to be a "Debby Downer"
A true professional should know better. Certain things you don't talk about with clients or a perspective client.

BUT people are human and sometimes they go on and on about things they shouldn't.
Sometimes when I go to my manicurist/hair stylist/accountant/financial planner ........ They complain about business or something else.
Do I wish they wouldn't complain and just go about what I came there for , Yes .
If it happens too many times ,and if I feel that their complaining is effecting our business that needs to be done, Well,  I may reconsider if I will continue to do business with that person.

Should a lady tell you that she needs to find child care ? Well not really.
BUT maybe she thought it is better to be honest with you , rather then booking an appointment , just to cancel last minute or maybe even flaking because she couldn't find child care.
She told you her child's name ..... Maybe it was a slip of the tongue. I can see that happening easily.

Since I don't have kids , I don't have these types of problems.
But I am sure it can be hard for a provider who has kids , and maybe even has child care , but that person who promised to care for the kid cancelled and now the provider has to find replacement and couldn't.
Maybe she felt that although it may be TMI , she didn't want to lie and make up some lame excuse why she can't make it. So she decided to be honest, and now you are complaining this is TMI.

Look I get that you guys like to think that all we do is Ho'ing . And that we sit 24/7 by the phone waiting to see who will call us next.
but we are real people , with real lives.

Should a provider try her best to be professional and keep her private life private , Yes !
but sometimes it may not be possible ...... not the end of the world.
If it bothers you that much , well then just move on.

Regarding your bait and switch/up-sell , - sorry that happened to you . ;-( ;-(
BUT you really need to stop thinking with the little head *wink wink*

I see you already had experienced bait and switch/upsell  based on the review you wrote in August.
So fool me once , shame on the bait and switch/up-sell. Fool me twice, shame on YOU !

By now you should know to do your research on TER.
If you still don't know "how to spot a bait and switch/up-sell
You should sign up to my 101 classes on "How to Spot a Rip Off"

So after you got ripped off you contact back the original provider to complain about what happened to you ........ why ?
Maybe that is TMI for her Why is it her problem you were thinking with the little head ?? Oops , I guess you can be human too

BUT I am curious why would you call back someone that you already felt was giving you TMI.
She offered that you can pay afterwards , why does that translate to being desperate ?
Maybe she was trying to make you feel comfortable that she isn't going to rip you off , by allowing you to pay in the end........ I wouldn't advise her to do that .
If she is a well reviewed lady , she doesn't have to prove herself for mistakes you made.

So moral of the story-
Think with the big head ,
Do better research or stick to ladies who have a long history of positive reviews.

Hope your next trip to Vegas will be filled only with sexy fun fun fun !!
xoxo CindySpice

Posted By: ouroborus

I was in Vegas for business and had made arrangements for an outcall to my room. Days before we were emailing and we finally spoke. One of the first things she told me, after I asked how she was...being nice and all, was that she was broke as business has been very slow. Ok I thought....I didn't need to hear that. When I finally get to Vegas she calls me to try and figure out a time. On the phone she tells me she might be able to see me that afternoon IF she can find CHILD CARE! WTF? Why would she tell me that?? My warning bells are going off. She calls back and says she can't find any care for "child's name"....OMG! Why did you just tell me you are having child care issues AND your kid's name?!?!?

I kinda think I'm not gonna see her so I contact someone else for that night and THAT did NOT go well. Got bait and switch and upsell. Got screwed over and not in the good way. So, I text the original telling her this and saying I'm not sure any more because of my bad experience. She replies back saying I could pay her afterwards. That just made her seem even more desperate. That combined with the TMI about her kid made me call it off.

Sigh....it wasn't a great trip to Vegas for me.

WTH would a provider tell all that stuff to someone she doesn't know...a perspective client??!?!

Jest couldn't resist, VerySexySpiceGal!!  

-- Modified on 9/18/2011 11:26:00 AM

ROFL ROFL ROFL ROFL ....

BUT oh if I had a penny for every time I hear "well said" , "great post"........damm I would be very very rich although I will admit , I love getting those compliments

and that is VERY SexySpiceGal *wink wink*

xoxo CindySpice

To CindySpice....just to clarify...this post is a sort of continuation of my Vegas experience where I got the bait/switch/rip off. That has not and will not happen again.

I thought the TMI was really messed up and wasn't a slip of the tounge as she texted me her son's name. I ended up NOT seeing her after I got ripped off from that other provider. I know people are people but assumed someone in the profession wouldn't dump that much info on someone she's never met and just spoke on the phone with after 2 minutes.

I do, do my research but obviously need to do better.

Myself, I will answer personal questions (within limits) if asked, in person, after I have met someone and have some level of comfort. Again - IF ASKED. But a perspective client, umm, no. Generally, the most you'll get of my personal life is the selective info I post on Twitter if you are so inclined to dig that deep. I choose to keep my business and personal life pretty well separated.

However, I do know girls for whom this business IS their life. They befriend a lot of their clients and will chat on the phone, spend extra time, request favors etc, etc with clients. And they will share copious amounts of personal info and drama. Some guys like this!  My guess is that its a "knight in shining armor saving the maiden in distress" kind of thing, but I don't know. I suppose the same reason some strippers will "dumb it down" to make more $$$.

So you see, it takes all kinds. Ladies who get a bit more personally involved may be criticized for TMI or excessive drama. I myself have been told I am too fiercely independent and self reliant. It all just depends on what you are looking for. The bottom line is, there is an abundance to choose from - if an escort doesn't seem to have a personality you'd be compatible with, just move on. But don't get sloppy, do your homework!

My bad I thought it was during a phone conversation. Ok maybe not slip of the tongue , I'll give you that
But still wondering why you felt the need to call/text her back after you got ripped off .......just wondering..........

Agree Devani ,

From one ( me ) fiercely independent and self reliant to another ( you )
I should have used the words - Personal Drama , rather then Personal Life.

Everyone ends up sharing something with each other about their lives.
Especially if being asked questions.
After all peeling off certain layers actually can add to the intimacy connection between two people.
 
I was more thinking about TMI as in all the DRAMA. Or like an escort walking into a room for the first time and her opening line is - Oh it is so slow , I am broke and I just had a fight with my BF
and I am so tired.

and for sure it isn't professional to tell someone you never even met - I am broke........but that's me .

Or sometimes guys complain that a lady is too talkative ........but they forgot they kept asking questions

Yes different strokes , for different folks ......... find what works for you.
 

Posted By: Devani

Myself, I will answer personal questions (within limits) if asked, in person, after I have met someone and have some level of comfort. Again - IF ASKED. But a perspective client, umm, no. Generally, the most you'll get of my personal life is the selective info I post on Twitter if you are so inclined to dig that deep. I choose to keep my business and personal life pretty well separated.

However, I do know girls for whom this business IS their life. They befriend a lot of their clients and will chat on the phone, spend extra time, request favors etc, etc with clients. And they will share copious amounts of personal info and drama. Some guys like this!  My guess is that its a "knight in shining armor saving the maiden in distress" kind of thing, but I don't know. I suppose the same reason some strippers will "dumb it down" to make more $$$.

So you see, it takes all kinds. Ladies who get a bit more personally involved may be criticized for TMI or excessive drama. I myself have been told I am too fiercely independent and self reliant. It all just depends on what you are looking for. The bottom line is, there is an abundance to choose from - if an escort doesn't seem to have a personality you'd be compatible with, just move on. But don't get sloppy, do your homework!