OK, I am posting this with caution. I have seen some of the highly rated providers in Las Vegas and to date can say because of TER have never had a bad experience. Some better than others over all a 9 out of 10 rating for all.  I am doing this under an alias because of hate mail from previous posts. Although I will PM anyone who is civil and want to discuss.  Here’s the deal there is a provider in the top 100 who I have seen 2 times prior in the past year. I saw her again for the third time recently.

We arranged for an hour and one half date on a week day night in my room. We spent some time catching up and then on to the events. After a single pop and so chit chat I wanted to go again. She looked at the clock and asked if I wanted to buy another 30 minutes .To which I responded no that I had to go to dinner and we ended the date pleasantly.

Here is my question to providers and hobbyists. Was it wrong of me to assume that she would go beyond our agreed upon time even though we have know each other for a while.  I too myself am in the service industry and I find when I under promise and over deliver I always win.

So far this provider is the only one who watched the clock to the minute even with an established client. All other providers that I shared time with have gone over on time from 30 minutes to 2 hours depending on the situation. In fact one particular provider I had to ask to leave because of business obligations.  (She was having so much fun she forgot the time).  In this particular case  I will probably not see this provider again. With such great other options available why should I?

I would like a little guidance on this one.

Thanks to all the Las Vegas ladies are the best in the world.

"perhaps she had somewhere to go after seeing you and could not stay .... You just never know what she had to do for the rest of her evening"

He said that offered to sell him more time, so it looks like compensation was the only issue. This is one of those times when boths sides have valid points. He shouldn't have expecred dmore time, but it is a bit tacky for her to chit chat for a 1/2 hour yet clock watch to the second.

Technically, of course, she's right, but I too would be turned off enough to not book again. Business wise, it sounds like a case of penny smart, dollar stupid. Which is what I think the op is saying.

With clients I have seen on multiple occasions, they do tend to get a little more special treatment.  There are many times where I don't have anything going on after the appointment, so it may not be a big deal to stay over a little.  There are other times when I can't.  I will promise that every time you will get the full extent of the agreed upon meeting, but it shouldn't be expected that we will go over.

In my experience, when I have done that it becomes expected and the gentleman always schedules the least amount of time, fully aware that he wishes to spend more time with me, but assuming I'll just stay, then doesn't even leave a tip.  IMO I think it's weird that gentleman want to pay less and get more.

this is simply a business and I would not view it in any other context so time is time. If a provider chooses on their own to go over or provide other services then fine, that is their choice and perhaps some indeed do that to establish long lasting client relationships consistent with all other service industry dynamics. So I don't want to engage someone that is a total clock watcher but I myself make sure I pay attention to time because, again and afterall, is not time and services delivered therewithin what we are paying for? Put another way, why would it bother you that if you paid for an hour, and you happen to be a chatty cathy for the first 30 minutes and only got to a BBBJ or say a few positions and only one pop, that at the end of the paid for hour the provider concluded the session (okay, I get not in a hurried way which would be a turn off) was over. I mean it is supposed to be over and we each have different lives so lets move on. If she watches the clock to the minute then that would be a turn off to me. But rough order of magnitude , I have no problem with a general "one hour paid for is one hour delivered" concept. Sometimes the incall/outcall characteristics make that a bit vague but I have no problem with paying for time on the clock and have no expectations otherwise (and can't really figure how others might reasonably have other expectations).

I'm confused.  Soooooo (deep breath) there was enough time to get serviced beyond the 90 minute OUTCALL that you requested, but time became an issue when she ASKED for 30 minutes compensation.  
Why not just pay for extending your time?   Um, it's September.
Two 90 minute sessions this year does not make you an established client. Besides, a well established client would compensate.

This is not a lady you planned on seeing again obviously, so your decision to move on down the top 100 list to pursue other options has nothing to do with this professional lady.  
Her behavior was in line with what I would expect from a top 100
or highly reviewed lady.  

JoCalderone aka gaga

Every lady works differently some will count the time as you are chatting some do not start the time until the actual session starts.When you saw the lady before did she stay over the appointment time?
You stated you have seen her before perhaps she had somewhere to go after seeing you and could not stay.
I do think it is wrong to assume that she will automatically stay longer if she was chatting too much there is a way to stop the chatting and get down to business.
I am not a clock-watcher and I truly enjoy the new friends and old friends that I see again sometimes our time does go over but I would not want a gent to expect that every time.
You just never know what she had to do for the rest of her evening.
Just my .02

Enjoy the providers who don't watch the clock and call them again if it means that much to you.

For the provider who watches the clock... she must be doing something right for you to see her three times....

I'll admit.... I tend to gravitate back to the providers who go over.... especially the providers who don't watch the clock for a drink or two before heading up because it generally means we have a really good time together to begin with.

So... to answer your questions:

1) Yes - it is wrong to assume she would go over the agreed upon time for free even if you are a repeat. Sure... it's always nice when they do go over but it can't be expected.

2) Yes - There are plenty of great options in Las Vegas and it sounds like you've experienced a few who may have spoiled you...

Don't be bitter about a clock watcher.... just be really appreciative of the ones that are not...

You think it being your 3rd she would have been a little more willing to help out a repeat client. As others have said though, she may have had an appointment after you.

Thanks for all the great input. Puts a lot of things in perspective. I am thankful that there are many options in Las Vegas.  Everyone be safe.

Ok, i have a follow up question.  I tend to book longer visits (usually 3 hours).  I like to hang out and relax.  In that case, should there be an assumption that there will be MSOG for the agreed upon price.  I have not been doing this for very long, but there was one time when i requested a second go around and the response was that there was to be extra compensation for that.  Being new, I agreed, but I thought at the time that it was a little cheesy, and my later experiences proved me to be correct about my feelings anyway.  What do you think?  For a three hour date should more than one pop be expected without an upcharge?

Pretty simple, actually.  You contracted for 90 mins, and, from what you're saying, she was with you for 90 minutes.  Would it have been a nice gesture if she extended your time for free?  Certainly, BUT an extension should have not been expected nor taken for granted.  Just as clear as that is that you may choose to spend your money on whomever you choose, so you don't have to feel that you must see her again if you're looking for someone who spends extra time off-the-clock.

If she planned to leave the second your 90 minutes was up, she should not have led you on by talking for so long.  You're obviously not paying her to talk for an hour.  Maybe you should have instigated things earlier but I think what she did was borderline hustle.

So its kind of like this simply put....
And I don't mean this in any rude or mean manner

But just as much as I don't expect or ask you to tip me
You shouldn't expect an "overage" of free time

Are there times when time has gone over a little bit, of course..things happen all the time but it should never expected that you will tip me or you will receive free time no matter if its your first or 100th time with the same provider...

Just my opinion...

I read your question a couple times and, if I am understanding correctly, you were wondering if your MSOG would be within your 90 minute time slot? or as an extension of your 90 minutes?

If it was within the 90 minutes then it most likely be determined by whatever the providers typical policies are - some offer MSOG for one, two, three hours - whatever you schedule. Others, are one shot for the same time frames. So it all comes down to what is expected by you versus  vs. what is being offered by the provider (as shown in their reviews, websites, etc.). On the other hand, if you, for whatever reason, have gone beyond your 90 minutes (even with a provider that offers MSOG) then at that point a provider may ask you to spend more money on more time if that is even an option. If a provider offers MSOG then 90 minutes is most likely enough time to accomplish that task.

I think in a circumstance such as that..why wouldn't there be another pop, 3 or 4?...Hehe If it was me [seeing how everything is inclusive in my pricing to keep you & myself happy] I would just keep going until you told me stop lol But each provider is very different and my only advice for that is just fully do your research and if you have questions like that just ask the provider or ask another fellow hobbyist his experience with her to get better insight on that providers rules, regulations, and compensation...

But I would say this from experience also take in consideration of knowing your body and realizing that your 2nd,3rd,4th or whatever pops after may take longer then expected at that point as a provider I do have to proceed to ask for extended time [obviously when we have reached our expected departing time] to get the job done if you expect me to finish you, and if you can't meet that request then please don't get upset at the provider for not being to finish you off...

Hi,

Allow me to introduce myself, my name is ChristineLynn.  I would love to speak with you about this as I have a few questions I would like your opinion on.  However I do not want this to be public so I would rather private message one another and discuss this further.  I am really just beginning to learn how to get around on TER even though I have been a member since 2008.  You can Private Message me or my email address is [email protected].

I look forward to hearing from you and sharing idea's with you.

Sincerely,

ChristineLynn

I am usually careful with time management during a session. If one wants MSOG, then the first pop can't be too early or too late. Trying to initiate round two with perhaps only 15 minutes left in a 90 minute session won't work for me. On average, I don't think it would work for most guys over the age of 40 or even 35. The provider knew that. I don't know the details of you're timing during this session though. That is why round one needs to start on time while keeping a mental timer of how long things are going without being too obsessive that you dampen you're mood. I have had a few times where I have not had the time to initiate round two. It's best to just cuddle and massage going home happy with a calm ending rather than pound away trying to get round two in and leaving the very next minute. I never expect extra time. Those times where providers stayed extra is unusual and should not be expected. Of course, high end expensive providers probably tend to do that more often.
bowler

I think that I misspoke, or what I posted was misinterpreted.  I booked a 3 hour appointment.  I was not looking for an add on to a 90 minute appointment; it was for 180 minutes and was prepaid for that.  So, I was looking for a second pop as part of our original agreed upon time.  There was no request or expectation for any more time than contracted for.  I was just looking for another go around during our contracted time and the girl asked me for an additional donation.  I think that was not right and, as I said, pretty cheesy.  Was I (am I ) wrong about that?  Thanks.