I have tried posting there and my posts seem to disappear when talking about the board. So, even though this board doesn't get much mileage, I am moving over here. Hopefully some others will follow.
I want to post a paraphrase of my last TBD post ever. It seems to have disappeared as soon as the moderator saw it, maybe something to do with mentioning that libel had been committed.
It occurred when Anal Ashley had posted after arriving from Chicago and posted to give a local number. The moderator deleted the post without a trace, as well one of her responses to an earlier query with that contact number. I posted new thread mentioning that she was in town but without contact information that I knew would disappear. The moderators response was totally uncalled for and even alluded to Ashley being infected with one or more diseases.
My response to that post amazingly disappeared without a trace. I am using this forum to relate the story of an innocent hobbiest that has been silenced and a provider that has been libelled.
Join with an increasing number of dedicated posters (look through the boards and see who recently became silent) and leave TBD for good. I am going back one more time to post a link to this message and, then, will never be heard from again in that forum.
The issue with Anal Ashley goes way way back. I'm not going to go into it because I don't know the whole story. But, if you went to the Chicago board on TBD and did a search within the archives, it may give you some insight as to the issue with Ashley (there are many, TBD is not the only one).
That being said, I am not in favor of removing posts because of personality issues or whatever. Its a public board and should be moderated that way. Unfortunately, it is not.
However, it is still a valuable board and will continue to provide lots of info. Nobody should leave a board unless they have a good reason to.
This is merely my opion. However, how can others make that decision without hearing the story? I feel that I have good reason to withdraw my opinions and knowledge from that board. I only want others to know why I am doing so. As for previous problems in Chicago, those posters seem confused as well and who knows how many others have been silenced.
Change is brought about by individuals expressing their ideas and growing from their present state. I have learned alot from TBD in my recent beginnings in the hobby; that includes a lesson learned about improper conduct by moderators of a board.
I don't remember saying that her post shouldn't have been deleted.
I started a thread there in such a way as to let others know she had posted and included my email to give the number. The first reply was along similar lines, offering me the contact number. That was when the moderator made his post that made his unsubstatiated claims. I posted a response that supported Ashley, that was the beginning of my enforced silence.
I knew why the post had been removed. I am disagreeing with the methods of the moderators.
I hope this explains what happened and why I will never share any information on TBD as I will also stop posting bout it here. I have too many plans to maked for coming encounters in my continuing experiences with some incredible women.
I personally have been banned several times from that particular board for expressing myself and going over board as well and lately I have had my differences with the owners due to the sudden restrictions that have been imposed without advising any of its regular members as a measure to avoid unwanted threads, fights and other things that can easy be avoided with proper monitoring which have caused them to impose all of these restrictions.
I have met many Cyber friends and providers through this particular board and I personally have to thank the owners for that opportunity but is just not what it once was. I have never had a problem on TER and I don’t think I will ever since the Moderation is properly done and when they find something that needs further clearing up they address you privately prior to either not posting the thread or allowing you to modify it instead. I can attest to this since it has happened to me and it does not imply that it has happened to others.
I hear u. And obviously, it is your choice to post on TBD or not. Believe me, there have been times when I was as pissed off as u regarding TBD. Bottom line, take it for what it is. It's just another source of info which is so important in this hobby.
BTW, I'm also a very big CindySpice fan (like you). I've known her for a few years and consider her a good friend.
I just went to TBD to see how things were going and found a new development. My original post that started the thread had been left alone for the first day despite my others being deleted. On a hunch, I went back and added the local contact number Ashley had posted; my original post was immediately "edited" by the moderator. In other words, he removed everything I had posted but had to leave the original post to allow his deragatory statement to remain on the board.
You can make your own decisions, this is only what I have witnessed.
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