just curious how a hobbyist new to vegas can get invited to a meet and greet thanks for any input in advance

It won't hurt to try.

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But you should consider joining P411 or date check.  You will need the same level of references to get a date from a well reviewed lady here, than you well to go to a M&G.

You can also ask for a date from a newbie friendly provider and they can be you first reference.

Out of town references are also good.

Last resort, work references, but I don't know if that will get you to the party.

good luck