Tread carefully in this matter

I would advise you to tread carefully and to let him know in a warm and gentle way that you are busy or perhaps changing your business model and no longer able to accomodate him. You dont want to be too brash and abrasive when speaking with him just in case he gets angry with you and then does something that puts you or your identity in harms way.--Sitara Devi

This has to be a very scary situation for a young provider.  Hopefully you can talk to someone who has dealt with this before.  I agree with NS that you should not see him anymore, but I may wait for more advice as to how to end the relationship properly.

confrontation is not the key to a sticky situation. Here's I would recommend, having "been there" and "done that" hanging with a very beautiful call girl this situation is not uncommon (no I wasn't the stalker...jeez...give me a break). Here's what you do. Get a friend on the line to listen in, and this is important, they don't say a word ever, never, never. Call him on the phone. Here's what you say.

Hello Dave, it's Cara.

voice on other end--- hello.

What's the matter Dave?

voice on the other end---- nothing. what do you mean....blah blabh....when done.

Dave, what is the matter?

silence.....

silence

Hello Dave, is there a problem you want to tell me about, Dave?

ummm....ummm...yes or no.

Dave, is there  a problem, we have been friends for four years, Dave, what is the problem?

ummm....ummm.....blah blab blah......no problem.

silence, don't say anything.


hello?

Dave, is there a problem, Dave?

hmmm.....no.


silence.

Hello.......hello?

Dave, I am still here. Is there a problem DAve, we have been friends for four years. Dave is there a problem?

yes, no....blah ...blah....blah

Dave, if there's a problem, I wish you would tell me about it. Is there a problem Dave?

yes, no...blah.

Dave call me when you figure out what the problem is ok? When you figure out what the problem is, give me a call so we can discuss it.


ok bye.

Then change your phone number.

And only give it out to people you know.

GEt a driver, pay drive $50 a pop.