Do you guys ever get attached a little or a lot to the person you are visiting?  I know there have been times where we'll click but i'll have to tell myself that its only for the duration of the time and afterwards when they walk out its no more.  Providers and hobbyists alike, you guys ever fall and keep thinking about them? Just curious if anyone mirrors my thoughts on this.

Of course. It's only natural unless of course you're a robot. But the key is to keep reminding yourself about the arrangement. To me, it's like falling for your hot dentist or check out girl at the grocery, etc. except that your involvement with a SP is of a more intimate nature so it's extremely harder to keep your emotions out of it. I'm a hobbyist but my advice to the providers is this Don't crap where you eat... As a hobbyist, I think it's a great sign if I keep thinking about her after the session and wanting to spend even more time with her since it shows I enjoyed our time together. But it doesn't necessarily mean I'm head over hill in love with her... If you have an ATF and you begin to sense even a smidgen of jealousy, my best suggestion is to find another ATF....

If you go to the General Discussion Board and search for key words like
"falling in love with provider" ( or any other type of key words )  
Day range put 1000 to 0  
You will find many stories and opinions.

Can it happen ?? well don't people in any type of work/jobs meet and fall for each other .
Yes they do.
In this line of work , we meet people too.  
Although we are hookers ...... we are still people with feelings, just like anyone else.

BUT , you ( both sides )  want to be sure not to confuse LOVE with LUST ...... many people confuse these two feelings , and that is one of the dangers of these feeling.
Spending 2 , 4, 6, 8, even 10 hours with someone may not be the same as you expect when you are spending days/weeks/months with that person.

This goes also with "real life" situations.
Like when someone married has an affair and the people in the affair only get to spend maybe a few days a month together or a few hours each week.
Of course that time together is the most amazing time they are having.
When your not together all the time it will always feel like a honeymoon.  
Then ( lets say )  they divorce their spouses to be together ........ only to find out they are now in the same type of relationship they just left .......well it's not always like that , but it is in many many cases.  .... I hear these stories all the time.

My first question to you - are you married or single ?
If married, then you need to remember the reason YOU hired an escort. and keep yourself in check.
If you are not happy with your marriage , then regardless the escort or your feelings for her or what you think you feel towards her.........you need to figure out your marriage .
Work on it , get out or ,keep as is and hire providers for fun that's it ....check your feelings at the door.

If your single , well then as in any type of relationship maybe you want to find out if the provider is interested in what you want and if the provider feels about you the way you feel about her.

You never know , what she may be thinking.........but even if both of you are on the same page ,
well that can be a huge challenge.

Many will say - forget about it , it never works out . and most stories I have heard, it didn't work out.
but I know a few success stories too .
Sometimes people think they can handle certain things , and then when they actually have to deal with these things, they can't .  

Clicking with someone and having a great  time together doesn't translate into "lets be together forever."
It's nice start  
but can you imagine still being with the person if she wasn't all dolled up ? if she got sick and needed someone to care for her.

OR are you just wondering if us ladies walk away from an amazing evening and keep thinking about you ? ...........well do you want us to ?  

I thought the whole point of the donations was to pay her to leave LOL LOL LOL
xoxo CindySpice    
   

   
 
 

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I like how you closed with "paying the person to leave." Very cute, but nothing costs more than paying a wife to leave. That is the ultimate overcharge.

you'll have to go back  a few years in your search, since the Love Goddess aka the LG, the mod left, You'll see a phrase "help I've fallen for a provider and can't get back" repeated many times.  

cindy you are smarter then dr jenn and dr laura and dr phil and even dr oz!!
you should have the Spice show on tv or radio!!! You sure hit the nail on the head!

There's a lady I met a year ago and have seen about 15 times since including just for dinner and/or drinks.  I think about her a lot and I think she's a very special lady. But aside from a few playful texts between appointments (which she always reciprocates) I've not said or done anything to her to try to take things beyond the professional relationship.  I guess I'm old enough to know better.  But if she ever suggested it . . . well, who knows.

*blush blush* Thanks.

Now from your mouth to Gods ( Oprah's ) ears LOL LOL LOL  

xoxo CindySpice  

 
 

was going for witty ....... but very cute also works

and that is the reason they say - it is cheaper to keep her !  
That's ok , I totally get that ...... but if you ( not you literally , talking anyone )   are married and plan to stay married .........
Well then check your feelings at the door.  

Why explore a relationship that is going no where .......Answer-  just for fun .
cool that is the whole point of the escort to begin with, right ?

Fun , fun , fun  
Lets have fun ,
xoxo CindySpice