I'm sorry you are so disappointed. In her mind, she will rationalize that she told you to call the night before but you did not so as much as you don't like it, in spite of her delay in the initial response, you didn't follow instructions and therefore she didn't believe you would keep the appointment. I know it sucks but it's kind of how it is. And keep in mind, not all providers work every day. It is summer and some providers with children are not able to access their hobby information as discreetly as before. There could be any number of valid reasons why she wasn't able to access it.
My advice to you would be to just move on. Griping about it on a public board will only serve to cause other providers to view you as someone they might not want to take the time booking with so maybe it would be best to just share this information with your friends in the hobby and pass the info around on the back channels. Public announcements like this only start drama and I'm sure you didn't intend to do that did you. It's just frustrating to have such a negative experience and not be able to warn others like you want to but trust me, word does get around eventually. We have other ladies who advertise on here who wonder why they don't get calls and it's all because the guys share that info with each other to help their hobby brothers stay safe.
So get connected with some guys, if you aren't already, and they will help you get that info to the places where it can be posted for others to see and beware okay.
Apparently you cannot sumbit a no-show review on someone, so I was told to voice my concern with a particular provider here.
Rose (of rubdownbyrose.com) was the provider's name.
I was very disappointed in the lack of professionalism that Rose showed. First, her website says that she will respond within 24 hours. I emailed her and did not hear back for three days. Her response said that she would call that evening. She did not. I waited three more days, then emailed and said that I was disappointed at that point and was not going to attempt further correspondence. Then she finally called, we talked, I changed my mind, and we set up an appointment. I asked if I should call to confirm, and she said to call when I got in the night before the appointment. I got in very late, so I sent her an email instead.
The next day, the time of the appointment rolled around and she had not shown up. I called to confirm that I had the time right, but got no response. Two hours later, she emailed me and told me that since she was not sure about me keeping the appointment, she had booked another session. She had my phone number and email address and rather than use the first or checking the second, she simply blew me off. I was exactly where I was supposed to be at the agreed upon time, and she stood me up. She asked if I wanted to reschedule for the next day (which she had initially told me she could not do because of other plans), but I had arranged my schedule specifically to accommodate her on the appointed day. Very, very unprofessional behavior.
So just a word of caution to anyone who might want to use her services. She showed herself to be completely unreliable in my view.
I'm sorry you are so disappointed. In her mind, she will rationalize that she told you to call the night before but you did not so as much as you don't like it, in spite of her delay in the initial response, you didn't follow instructions and therefore she didn't believe you would keep the appointment. I know it sucks but it's kind of how it is. And keep in mind, not all providers work every day. It is summer and some providers with children are not able to access their hobby information as discreetly as before. There could be any number of valid reasons why she wasn't able to access it.
My advice to you would be to just move on. Griping about it on a public board will only serve to cause other providers to view you as someone they might not want to take the time booking with so maybe it would be best to just share this information with your friends in the hobby and pass the info around on the back channels. Public announcements like this only start drama and I'm sure you didn't intend to do that did you. It's just frustrating to have such a negative experience and not be able to warn others like you want to but trust me, word does get around eventually. We have other ladies who advertise on here who wonder why they don't get calls and it's all because the guys share that info with each other to help their hobby brothers stay safe.
So get connected with some guys, if you aren't already, and they will help you get that info to the places where it can be posted for others to see and beware okay.
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