I have regulars who fly me out, and get a room in the same hotel just to play when the fam is having fun too!  All work, and no play makes Daddy a dull guy.

integrity, so don't do it.

I was close to "doing it" one time, also in Vegas, but I cancelled. Family was just too close and it was not worth the risk. I waited until I was back in New York until I saw my ATF.

So it seems tacky if the family are in town, but its fine if they are back home while you have your fun?

Not judging in the slightest, just hard to see your feelings.

How far from the room where you and your Vegas lady meet does the family have to be before it doesn't seem tacky.

500 Yards, 1mile, 5 miles, Arizona...lol.

1,734 Delta miles is my guideline.  Baba O Riley only exists in Las Vegas.  He hibernates between trips.  And when the family comes to Vegas he stays in the cave. Hypocritical?  Probably, but some guideline is better then no guideline.  You owe it to your family to keep the risks as minimal as possible.  Too many consequences to being exposed.  Trust me on that one.  JMHO

I've seen too much of this lately on these boards, and it's driving me up a f'in wall.

To repeat:  The hobby exists mostly to serve the needs of married men who aren't getting what they want/need from their SOs.  Without married men as a potential pool of clients, most hobbyists would have to get jobs at McDonald's to get by.

We can talk all day long about the wisdom of seeing a provider while in town on vacation with wife and family--but let's please stop the BS of false morality of "Why would you ever see a provider if you're married/have an SO/are in a LTR"?

Believe me, if you live long enough, and succumb to the brain damage of marriage (or the equivalent), you'll find out why you might want to see a provider...